"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey, i need alittle bit help here with something.
I know there are endless of topics to discuss, but when those topics goes out of date or really don`t know what to talk about, then youre stuck.


anyway; what kind of topics do you guys bring up/talk about about when you have been talked with a girl for awhile and meet her everyday on bus or school++, and starting to know her?

Do you guys use the same question every day?
ex: "how you doing", "what`s up?" "... where did you get that ;object;" those regular questions.


and what do u guys do when someone just say "I don`t know"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude.. ... tell some thing about your self too...

for eg : if she says " I 'm fine"..

say " I'm great... you know.i just happened to be at( give oyur own true story)

she will be interested ... she cant reject you , cuz you never gave her a chance....

try this and let me know....
 
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Talk about HER.
 
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Dude it's all about vibing and branching conversations.

I used to SUCK at talking to chicks for extended periods of time but as soon as I understood how to branch, it's never been a problem.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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