"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Krassus said:
Guys who don't get laid talk about what the girls want to talk about. Guys who do get laid talk about what THEY want to talk about :) If you have a really strong sense of self, the chick will hang on to your every word, even though, ourside of this particular conversation with YOU, she couldn't care less about the subject being discussed. But because YOU'RE discussing it... she's in awe. Think racing, for instance. In general, chicks couldn't care less about cars. But when i talk about it, THE WAY I TALK ABOUT IT, their eyes open wide and they become almost perfectly still. I pour so much masculine passion into my words that they're enthralled. One chick told me that just feeling me accelerate really fast makes her cl1t instantly hard now.
True. A man is not a robot.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Guys, why not go out with women who have similar interests as you so that you can talk about things that are interesting to both of you? :rolleyes:
Yuh. A good part of conversation can come naturally and comfortably, when similar minds connect.

I tend to think that if one puts on too much of a performance the other will be compromised as well. The charm thing…the presentation per se….has to be relatively genuine, a charmful extension of oneself, rather than something entirely contrived for the occasion.

But then I guess it depends on what the intention or the 'goal' really is…if she is meant to be a quality pursuit, or just a simple f*ck.
 

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well I am asking because I always just talk about what I want to, but that aint working, **** pisses me off, and you guys are giving me conflicting advice lol. really I couldnt care less about conversating with a woman, rather go straight to the fuc-k session, but im not cold like that, thats why I am asking. Most of the women I approach seem uninterested, I was thinking maybe because I dont know how to change that through conversation? thanks for the reponses! cant belive I am putting all this effort lol!
 

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they like to talk about anything but you.

i don't know how many times i've watched those stupid idiot afcs on dating shows where the guy just doesn't shut up about himself.

The less she knows about you the better.

When you talk about yourself you are basically trying to qualify. As far as you are concerned you already qualify so there is no reason for you to convince her.

What you need to do is qualify her.
 

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00Kevin said:
they like to talk about anything but you.

i don't know how many times i've watched those stupid idiot afcs on dating shows where the guy just doesn't shut up about himself.

The less she knows about you the better.
So true!:up:

Everytime I see some guy whos keeps talking and talking with HBs about boring things about himself, I just cringe... And many times the guy thinks he's the "life of the party" because he's showing his "cool" through his words...

It can be so bad some times... :nervous:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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00Kevin said:
they like to talk about anything but you.....
Sounds like you're having conversations with the wrong women.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sounds like you're having conversations with the wrong women.
no... I'm just making a comment about the typical americanized chick.

I don't date those pathetic sluts anymore . I only have pity for them and the men who chase them.
 

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O.G said:
really I couldnt care less about conversating with a woman, rather go straight to the fuc-k session,
That's your problem.

You care way too much about sex man. Lemme ask, are you a virgin? There's nothing wrong with it you just seem to be placing a ton of importance on sex and not genuinely getting to know someone.
 

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00Kevin said:
no... I'm just making a comment about the typical americanized chick....
Yep, sounds like the wrong type of woman... ;)
 

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i always try to talk about the enjoyable things in life - concerts that have been seen recently or are going to see in the future, money, sex, drugs, vacations, hobbies - happy stuff. if its a cold approach you have to be witty and comment on the current surroundings or someone or something in it - the vibe, whatever. don't get stuck on current events or **** like that; cuz it never leads to horniness just un horny discussions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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