“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Krassus said:
Guys who don't get laid talk about what the girls want to talk about. Guys who do get laid talk about what THEY want to talk about :) If you have a really strong sense of self, the chick will hang on to your every word, even though, ourside of this particular conversation with YOU, she couldn't care less about the subject being discussed. But because YOU'RE discussing it... she's in awe. Think racing, for instance. In general, chicks couldn't care less about cars. But when i talk about it, THE WAY I TALK ABOUT IT, their eyes open wide and they become almost perfectly still. I pour so much masculine passion into my words that they're enthralled. One chick told me that just feeling me accelerate really fast makes her cl1t instantly hard now.
True. A man is not a robot.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Guys, why not go out with women who have similar interests as you so that you can talk about things that are interesting to both of you? :rolleyes:
Yuh. A good part of conversation can come naturally and comfortably, when similar minds connect.

I tend to think that if one puts on too much of a performance the other will be compromised as well. The charm thing…the presentation per se….has to be relatively genuine, a charmful extension of oneself, rather than something entirely contrived for the occasion.

But then I guess it depends on what the intention or the 'goal' really is…if she is meant to be a quality pursuit, or just a simple f*ck.
 

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well I am asking because I always just talk about what I want to, but that aint working, **** pisses me off, and you guys are giving me conflicting advice lol. really I couldnt care less about conversating with a woman, rather go straight to the fuc-k session, but im not cold like that, thats why I am asking. Most of the women I approach seem uninterested, I was thinking maybe because I dont know how to change that through conversation? thanks for the reponses! cant belive I am putting all this effort lol!
 

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they like to talk about anything but you.

i don't know how many times i've watched those stupid idiot afcs on dating shows where the guy just doesn't shut up about himself.

The less she knows about you the better.

When you talk about yourself you are basically trying to qualify. As far as you are concerned you already qualify so there is no reason for you to convince her.

What you need to do is qualify her.
 

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00Kevin said:
they like to talk about anything but you.

i don't know how many times i've watched those stupid idiot afcs on dating shows where the guy just doesn't shut up about himself.

The less she knows about you the better.
So true!:up:

Everytime I see some guy whos keeps talking and talking with HBs about boring things about himself, I just cringe... And many times the guy thinks he's the "life of the party" because he's showing his "cool" through his words...

It can be so bad some times... :nervous:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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00Kevin said:
they like to talk about anything but you.....
Sounds like you're having conversations with the wrong women.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Sounds like you're having conversations with the wrong women.
no... I'm just making a comment about the typical americanized chick.

I don't date those pathetic sluts anymore . I only have pity for them and the men who chase them.
 

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O.G said:
really I couldnt care less about conversating with a woman, rather go straight to the fuc-k session,
That's your problem.

You care way too much about sex man. Lemme ask, are you a virgin? There's nothing wrong with it you just seem to be placing a ton of importance on sex and not genuinely getting to know someone.
 

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00Kevin said:
no... I'm just making a comment about the typical americanized chick....
Yep, sounds like the wrong type of woman... ;)
 

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i always try to talk about the enjoyable things in life - concerts that have been seen recently or are going to see in the future, money, sex, drugs, vacations, hobbies - happy stuff. if its a cold approach you have to be witty and comment on the current surroundings or someone or something in it - the vibe, whatever. don't get stuck on current events or **** like that; cuz it never leads to horniness just un horny discussions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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