"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I'm a pretty shy, quiet person. Most people I meet tell me I'm quiet. I want to change but sometimes it's hard to find something to say.

Anyways, I invited this girl over to watch a movie tonight. I thought since we would be watching a movie some of the pressure would be off of me, but I want her to remember more about me than the movie. I'm terrified that she'll just come over, watch the movie, then leave, and nothing will really click.

Can someone give me some advice on how and where to steer a conversation?

PS I'm sorry if this is one of those common threads that everyone hates, but please don't lock it. I don't really have enough time before she gets here to search the site or forums.

Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just relax dude and dont get into any deep convo. Your watching a movie anyways. Use a little ****y comedy and maybe some kino. Sometimes I use stuff in the movie to make convo.
 
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successful kino, like alcohol, really aids a convo. Use it well. Also, look through the Articles and Hall of Fame section for some general advice about conversations.

Then learn to relax, and when it's all over, perhaps read the Book of Pook (link at bottom).
 
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