thesocalledking
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Hi guys, what are some of the top ways to approach girls in public places? Thanks
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Top Ways To Approach A Girl?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thesocalledking
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yes but what tips does anyone have about talking to a girl say at walmart?
FireOnTheMountain
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Ask her 'what's the best way to talk to a woman in Wal Mart?'.
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"So I noticed you're buying 1%...is that 'cause you think you're fat? 'Cause you could buy whole if you wanted to..."
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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thesocalledking said:Hi guys, what are some of the top ways to approach girls in public places? Thanks[/QUOTE
The question is too broad...
You're new here. Take some time to read. Read the bible (it's a lot, so maybe pick and choose what looks interesting for now), browse the forums, use the search tool....
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Hii! My mom said I shouldn' talk to strangers but Ill make an exception this time
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OP,FireOnTheMountain said:Ask her 'what's the best way to talk to a woman in Wal Mart?'.
it sounded sarcastic, but it is a very good way to open imo.