thesocalledking
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Hi guys, what are some of the top ways to approach girls in public places? Thanks
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Top Ways To Approach A Girl?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
thesocalledking
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yes but what tips does anyone have about talking to a girl say at walmart?
FireOnTheMountain
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Ask her 'what's the best way to talk to a woman in Wal Mart?'.
MooseGod
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"So I noticed you're buying 1%...is that 'cause you think you're fat? 'Cause you could buy whole if you wanted to..."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ARrocket
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thesocalledking said:Hi guys, what are some of the top ways to approach girls in public places? Thanks[/QUOTE
The question is too broad...
You're new here. Take some time to read. Read the bible (it's a lot, so maybe pick and choose what looks interesting for now), browse the forums, use the search tool....
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Hii! My mom said I shouldn' talk to strangers but Ill make an exception this time
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OP,FireOnTheMountain said:Ask her 'what's the best way to talk to a woman in Wal Mart?'.
it sounded sarcastic, but it is a very good way to open imo.