Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
1.c.d.l- once you see how much they cost to get one your jaw will drop. you have to realize also there are several variations of CDL. getting your hazmat is nice but it ain't cheap and it ain't easy.elite7 said:1.c.d.l
2.plumber
3.sales
4.military
5.event planner
6.Insurance broker
7.pastor (I almost gagged when I found out how much they make).
8.pawnshop owner
9.private eye
10.commercial diver
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
might have payed good once upon a time....but i know many of them who own their own trucks....and are crying right now....and it's not just the working conditions.Bible_Belt said:Truck driving is one of the last occupations where somebody can make an above-average living almost straight from high school. $40k/yr is a reasonable estimate,
If you go this route, get the Paramedic cert. I've tested with many fire depts, as certified as an EMT, you are competing against 1000's of others for a spot. I've been accepted twice, to have both academies cancelled for budget cuts. If I went with a Paramedic, I have no doubt I'd be on an Engine right now (I did well testing).Sir Psycho Sexy said:Firefighter/Paramedic. It will be around 18 months of training and very competitive to find a full time job in most states. Average salary for a full time firefighter/paramedic starts at about 50K, maybe a little less. Ranging from 35K to 60K.
Just being a paramedic is in high demand in many large cities. About 12 months of training but starting salary is only around 30-35K
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You watch way too much tv. Pimps? Not exactly what you see on tv. Most lucrative prostitution rings are run by ethnic gangs (even in America). And I am not talking about Mexican gangsPRMoon said:1. Drug Dealer
2. Pimp
I'm joking of course, crime doesn't pay in the long run but you are missing some very lucrative albeit niche jobs.
1. Vallet parker. Depending on the establishment, 60-80k is reasonable.
2 Fitness model. Again this is VERY niche but your manager could land you good contracts.
3. Waiters See vallet
4. Repo spotter this one is iffy because you almost need to have pi like qualities and quality driving skills. Even then getting "rich" isn't easy.
5. Tow truck driver. Looooong hours but a speedy hitch man can make 5k a month depending on the town.
There are lots of in demand or specialty jobs that pay well with minimal education but there are conditions like location to consider.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.