"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Top signs you have entered the friendzone

fedagent

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How about this? Any ideas on how to know when you're crossing into a world from which there is no return?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr_knowit_all

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What about if she talks to you about her problems, yet says she loves you and wants to have sex with you? YET, when you ask her out, she says she doesn't know if that's what she wants?????
 

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The top number three signs you have entered the friendzone.
3. When you fail to approach. Inaction = No Action.




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When you see all the signs of Interest, and you can't possess the idea of doing something about it, and it goes away.




And the number one sign you have entered the friend zone is....


1. She might as well knock you out with a hammer instead of bothering with all of the signs she's been giving you that she IS NOT INTERESTED.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cod3r

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She says, "lets just be friends" when you spill your guts to her like a pansy



-Cod3r
 
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