“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ready123
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TD - took the Natural Game model and filled in all the holes, and there were a LOT of holes
I used to visit Thundercat's blog and half the time it was just him raggin on RSD. The dude totally reeks of insecurity
but my fave is carlos xuma, he is the real deal and man, he gives u some insights, do u check his things?
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Which one you recommand ? I have Sexual Selection Switch but i didnt listen it yet .ready123 said:
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if you want the best learning model for natural game, I'd go with TD's Blueprint. 90% of the concepts I learned from Vin Dicarlo were explained better in the BP, plus the BP filled in all the gapsDaddy The Pimp said:
DiCarlo feels attraction is caused by situational dynamics such as compliance. TD's theory that subcommunication causes attraction makes a lot more sense to me
DiCarlo still has a lot of solid ideas though
- his escalation ladder and his concept of windows of opportunity are the best ways to troubleshoot kino. All the guys who are getting wierd responses from the girl or LMR should go check it out
- he tends to look at things from a compliance standpoint (this is what sexual selection switch is about, trying to get the girl to hold your drink and sht). I don't know if it's the ideal way to be looking at things but you do learn a lot
- this article of his and this article are why I went natural. back then, they just clicked with me
Yea I heard he's good but I never bothered to look him up. I'm at the point where I'm sick of gurus. Almost every guru emphasizes their model out of context because nobody's drawn the bigger picture that unites all these methods. It's pretty much up to you to figure it out. And in doing so you find a lot of them take the same concepts, give them different names and confuse everybody (RSD calls a sht test a congruent test. Vin DiCarlo calls lack of neediness "warm dominance".). It's annoying to have to sort through that sht every time.schttrj said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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This is the information which builds a solid foundation. Besides, it's rooted in deep psychological profiling and uses absolutely no tactics, bullsh!t trickery or fvcking pickup lines.
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"Not from a Jedi . . ."wolf116 said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Señor Fingers
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Gurus are not built on study alone. EXPERIENCE is the master sensei!
Having said that, I have always enjoyed the ramblings of certain folks, like Tyler Durden, Juggler, Swing Cat, Style. I haven't read any of their stuff in ages, but found it entertaining and helpful when I was going through my slvt phase.
There are other gurus out there that can compliment your game though. Don't sleep on cats like Robert Greene, Dale Carnegie, Robert Cialdini, among others.
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Haha, I will stop now. I told you I was going to do it tho!
OP, look up Fingers' post, BTW. Our own resident natural.
Daddy The Pimp
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Yea this is good advice but sometimes you cant look for someone's else method . Most of the time , method works best for peoples who found it .Señor Fingers said:
For example , one of my friends is real jerk . You cant imagine how jerk he is . And he's method wouldnt fit for me . Some use NICEGUY method too . That doesnt fit to me either .
So , best thing IMO is to learn the basics from everyone . Than develop your own method , your own way of getting girl .
I've seen quite a few different gurus over the years and I'm still seeing bits of more. David DeAngelo has been a great start for lots of people, and that's where I started to. I agree with Karma about Dr. Paul after watching David D's Deep Inner Game, which is mostly my Dr. Paul.
The Blueprint Decoded by RSD (TD) is simply the best product I've seen. After reading The Game and some of Thundercat's blog (I really don't like him anymore) I didn't have a good impression of RSD. The Blueprint turned all that around. I haven't seen any of their other products though. They are pretty big and reccomeded these days.
The Mystery Method might have some usefull stuff but at some point you are going to want to get away from canned material so that might not be the best thing to get into.
Carol Xuma was great for awhile but I haven't read anything of his for a long time. I liked how he was all about being an alpha male rather than just pickup.
Hypnotica is great for inner game, but now I'm going away from the pikcup stuff for my inner game material.
Every 'guru' has something to offer, some more than others. Just see what you like, and if you like it and it works don't worry about what anyone else says. Try a few and take what you need from them, just as long as you are going out and trying there stuff and getting experiance. You will quickly find out what works for you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
david de'angelo as i felt from his newsletters though that he reinforces his c/f thing more than anything. its again a technique. this is the only reason why i like carlos. he is deep in his material. derek vitalio is also there. i think derek and thundercatt are somewhat same or in their dealing of this game. the mm is a great science but that is what i would never use because it is too much of techniques.
guys, am i missing anything?
To be honest I haven't read much by Thundercat I just think he is a douchebag and so I am biased against him. He is always whinging about RSD when they are probably the best company on the market at the moment.
Its like Ross Jeffries, he probably has some good stuff (mixed in with a lot of creepy stuff) but he is just a tool. Did anyone seem him on Dr. Phil attacking the Mystery Method? Aparantly the mystery method is creepy and bad for girls, and of course speed seduction is completely innocent. While Nick and Scott made the whole PUA thing look good RJ just brought the whole community down with him. He is always attacking other companies, being an obnoxious d!ck and it probably a meglomaniac. I don't really want to end up like that.
I don't want to be mystery either. By all accounts he has serious problems and the MM is way too rigid. I would like to be like Zan but I can't see me having all of his beliefs because they are so contradictory to everyone elses.
David D seems all about c/f because thats like his signature. If you see his actual products you will see he has a lot more. C/f isn't really a technique, not if it is used properly, it is more like a mindset. If you use it as a technique it wont be congruent.
Hm that's enough keyboard jockeying for one day. If you like Thundercat you should stick by it and ignore whate everyone else is saying, including me.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.