"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Top and Bottom Three Features in a Guy

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I saw this thread on another forum and thought it was worth reading despite the fact that most of it is obvious. It is written by women so there may be a difference between who they say they go for and who they actually go for, but i still think its useful.
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=496924
The things that interested me were that in the bottom features section were things like bad hygeine, bad teeth, and obesity which can be easily improved as well as varying opinions on facial hair. Also arrogance in a guy was often put down as a bad feature which I think is the problem with trying to pull off ****y/funny if you're not funny.
In the good features things like a reasonable body (some like skinny some like less skinny, there was variety) and having a decent personality (funny, honesy etc) came up a lot. The eyes also seem to be important. There was also quite a few saying they liked taller guys.

I think its worth a look at. And it would be better if this thread didn't into some pathetic "do looks matter" thread or even a "short people can't get laid" thread

Heres the version for the best features on a girl as well
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=497007
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Seems like they're being honest, muscles and height are cropping up quite a lot. All the more reason to get built and ripped.

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Mad Manic, you're not at Leeds Uni are you? I've got an interview up there in January for Medicine.
 

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elmnick said:
Mad Manic, you're not at Leeds Uni are you? I've got an interview up there in January for Medicine.
No mate I live in Leeds but go to uni in London. Good luck with the interview. :)
 
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