"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Top and Bottom Three Features in a Guy

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I saw this thread on another forum and thought it was worth reading despite the fact that most of it is obvious. It is written by women so there may be a difference between who they say they go for and who they actually go for, but i still think its useful.
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=496924
The things that interested me were that in the bottom features section were things like bad hygeine, bad teeth, and obesity which can be easily improved as well as varying opinions on facial hair. Also arrogance in a guy was often put down as a bad feature which I think is the problem with trying to pull off ****y/funny if you're not funny.
In the good features things like a reasonable body (some like skinny some like less skinny, there was variety) and having a decent personality (funny, honesy etc) came up a lot. The eyes also seem to be important. There was also quite a few saying they liked taller guys.

I think its worth a look at. And it would be better if this thread didn't into some pathetic "do looks matter" thread or even a "short people can't get laid" thread

Heres the version for the best features on a girl as well
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=497007
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Seems like they're being honest, muscles and height are cropping up quite a lot. All the more reason to get built and ripped.

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Mad Manic, you're not at Leeds Uni are you? I've got an interview up there in January for Medicine.
 

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elmnick said:
Mad Manic, you're not at Leeds Uni are you? I've got an interview up there in January for Medicine.
No mate I live in Leeds but go to uni in London. Good luck with the interview. :)
 
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