"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In 1937, the last full year of his career, Lou Gehrig was playing while battling a crippling neurological disease that would later bear his name. And he still batted .295 - he was that good. Early the next season he removed himself voluntarily from the lineup, then retired and gave his famous speech at Yankee Stadium. The disease had progressed by that time so much that his teammates had to help him up the dugout steps and onto the field. He died two years later.
More baseball from Bible Belt! Gehrig's name had occurred to me when I read this thread.
I've always been a firm believer in counting your blessings, in appreciating what you have. I don't think I can think of a better example than Gehrig's speech.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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