Top 2 signs of a Maneater

[CornbreadFed]

If you notice these two signs, then your strategy should be to hit it and quit it or just run. AMS made a video about this and after thinking on it, it made sense. A maneater is a woman that will cause your head to grey, put you on MGTOW, scar you permanently, and etc. Maneaters should be avoided entirely be novice and vulnerable men because they will destroy you.

1). She’s quiet on the first few dates before you hit it.

Unless you know this girl is an introvert, it’s a bad sign if she’s acting shy or quiet early on. You met her at a bar, you see her going on trips and being social, but now she’s quiet. That’s not shyness, that’s her hiding her real personality until she has you comfortable.

2). She has no close female friends.

Friend groups don’t count. Family doesn’t count. Work friends or frenemies don’t count. She needs a real friend, the kind of girl who would drive across the country to help her out and not expect anything in return. If she has no true friends, that means other women find her too difficult to deal with long term.

When you see these two signs, you already know what time it is. Keep it fast and casual or walk away before you learn the hard way. Be careful with the idea of hitting and quitting it, as these women know how to keep you hooked with their sexual ability to satisfy and use hot-and-cold tactics to leave you flustered. The reason this wasn't point three is because once you get a taste of that allure, you're likely already in too deep......unless she decides you're no longer useful to her.

 

[Hal9000]

Women without female friends is always a big old red flag.

 

[jhonny9546]

2). She has no close female friends.

This is true, and it's also true that women don't have friends.

I mean, guys, they don't make friends the way we do.
For women, competing is the only thing that matters.

So they have friends on a rotating basis, whatever they need at a given moment, and then they drift away, and then they come back.

In my experience, a clear sign to watch for is if they lovebomb their friends—that is, if they become attached to these friends too quickly, too deeply, if they start telling them too many secrets and confidences. In that case, the girl isn't trustworthy. She'll leave that friend, wronging them and erasing her from her life. Then, if that friend is a doormat, she'll come back and want to reconnect, and she'll do it all over again.

So, yes, you're right, a woman with female friends, or even one or two close friends, is a great sign.
But what do you consider "friend" or "company"?
The "Friday aperitif friends," or the "dance school friends," or the "shopping friend"?

We can't know.
So, if you can say more abut that point it would be interesting to talk about!

 

[Prepostereax]

These also happen to be features of Cluster-B's, especially BPD's.

The fake-shyness.
She's trying to get your measure whilst concealing her own.

But it's extremely difficult to assess the level of friendships in this age of social media.
She may even have female "simps" or orbiters, that are disposable to her and easily replaced.
A giveaway is if there's a real disparity eg her "bestie" (for this year/season) is some fat/ugly chick who makes her look hotter than she actually is.

 

[CornbreadFed]

A giveaway is if there's a real disparity eg her "bestie" (for this year/season) is some fat/ugly chick who makes her look hotter than she actually is.

I thought I put this on here, but I call them honey tap friends.

 

[Gamisch]

This is true, and it's also true that women don't have friends.

I mean, guys, they don't make friends the way we do.
For women, competing is the only thing that matters.

So they have friends on a rotating basis, whatever they need at a given moment, and then they drift away, and then they come back.

In my experience, a clear sign to watch for is if they lovebomb their friends—that is, if they become attached to these friends too quickly, too deeply, if they start telling them too many secrets and confidences. In that case, the girl isn't trustworthy. She'll leave that friend, wronging them and erasing her from her life. Then, if that friend is a doormat, she'll come back and want to reconnect, and she'll do it all over again.

So, yes, you're right, a woman with female friends, or even one or two close friends, is a great sign.
But what do you consider "friend" or "company"?
The "Friday aperitif friends," or the "dance school friends," or the "shopping friend"?

We can't know.
So, if you can say more abut that point it would be interesting to talk about!

This is some deep game. It takes experience to see through her mask if shyness.

Matter a fact; most women (rightfully so and luckily for us) are animals deep down inside. Thus is what I meant when I said women Will eventually punish you for not understanding them. It's on YOU as a man to allow her to let to of the shyness masquerade. If you don't she will be stuck in that role and that leads to resentment.

 

[Gamisch]

This is true, and it's also true that women don't have friends.

I mean, guys, they don't make friends the way we do.
For women, competing is the only thing that matters.

So they have friends on a rotating basis, whatever they need at a given moment, and then they drift away, and then they come back.

In my experience, a clear sign to watch for is if they lovebomb their friends—that is, if they become attached to these friends too quickly, too deeply, if they start telling them too many secrets and confidences. In that case, the girl isn't trustworthy. She'll leave that friend, wronging them and erasing her from her life. Then, if that friend is a doormat, she'll come back and want to reconnect, and she'll do it all over again.

So, yes, you're right, a woman with female friends, or even one or two close friends, is a great sign.
But what do you consider "friend" or "company"?
The "Friday aperitif friends," or the "dance school friends," or the "shopping friend"?

We can't know.
So, if you can say more abut that point it would be interesting to talk about!

Great post Johnny.

Most. Women don't have that much real friends, although the dame can be said about men..most friendships are conditionally.

Women will encourage each other's bs untill one snaps.. @CornbreadFed , I kinda agree but there are any more options to define a woman as a man eater. What about the bubbly personality? The talkative serial dater who is an expert at first dates?

 

[The Duke]

I don't think I've ever been eaten by such thing, but for sure I've eaten a few!

 

[plumber]

frame, we shall live in our frame. no problem.

the way is to not get hooked by emotional manipulations. see them, laugh and live.

literally all of these issue in the topic don't matter if we don't allow ourselves to get emotional hooked. to get eaten you must react. if you don't react then you stay in charge. no problem.

treat her like the weather. if its sunny have fun. if its stormy go away until the storm is past. don't stand in the storm.

and... don't be self critical, frame slips happen. just reset and move on.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Silicone lips.

 

[CornbreadFed]

@CornbreadFed , I kinda agree but there are any more options to define a woman as a man eater. What about the bubbly personality? The talkative serial dater who is an expert at first dates?

I would not put the bubbly in the same category because they tend to just lead you on and give you a bad case of oneitis at best. A maneater will actually get you hooked with decent sex and eat your soul.

 

[jhonny9546]

It's on YOU as a man to allow her to indulge in the masquerade of shyness. If you don't, she will be stuck in that role, and that leads to resentment.

Explain this better, it's interesting.

Treat her like the weather. If it's sunny, have fun. If it's stormy, go away until the storm is over. Don't stand in the storm.

I'd like to agree, but in this case, what do you consider disrespectful to end the relationship?
I mean, women are like this 24/7, first hot and then cold. (Depending on their cycle.)

But things will happen in the relationship: she'll become infatuated with someone and start to withdraw emotionally. It happens; we're not monogamous animals. She didn't cheat on you physically, but she's emotionally attached to this person now. Usually, it passes, and nothing happens. But it happened.

So what will you do? It'll happen again.
Do you consider it disrespectful and end the relationship?

 

[plumber]

So what will you do? It'll happen again.
Do you consider it disrespectful and end the relationship?

if you feel disrespected, move on. yes end it. disrespect is different than disagreement. she is supposed to disagree with you to sharpen you. disrespect is something else.

its not about what she did, its about how you feel. some guys can care less if she does all that. other guys will feel disrespected if she doesn't call them sir. both are right.

don't feel disrespected and then accept it. that's the deal, its all in your mind. but its real...

disrespect is subjective. probably some actions many would think is disrespect, but for every one of those actions some place there is a man that does not care about that situation.

if you feel it, it is.

 

[Gamisch]

Explain this better, it's interesting.



I'd like to agree, but in this case, what do you consider disrespectful to end the relationship?
I mean, women are like this 24/7, first hot and then cold. (Depending on their cycle.)

But things will happen in the relationship: she'll become infatuated with someone and start to withdraw emotionally. It happens; we're not monogamous animals. She didn't cheat on you physically, but she's emotionally attached to this person now. Usually, it passes, and nothing happens. But it happened.

So what will you do? It'll happen again.
Do you consider it disrespectful and end the relationship?

If a woman is shy ,and feminine it can easily be her way if seducing you. She simply felt enough attracted to show her best self.

But it will be temporarily. It literally a window of opportunity she shows you. If you do pick up on it and act, she can slowly transform her shyness into..whatever:boldness, naughtiness, sexually, ect. Shyness literally is the counter opposite of promiscuity.

Sometimes we as man are stuck ( sometimes forced,think professional settings) to believe in her shyness And sometimes we get stuck in it even while we date her or trying to date her ( because we men act like scared chickens). Think about it. Simply not escalating mostly happens because she came across as something related to shyness, prudish, distant..

Finally it can also be detrimental in LTRs. Think about the man who has a dead bedroom for " a long time" while his " partner" gets her back blown out by another man..two versions of the same woman for two different dudes.

 

[jhonny9546]

Do you connect shyness = being intimidated?

 

[RangerMIke]

Women without female friends is always a big old red flag.

Very true.... especially if she has female relatives that she isn't close with. But all this only matters if you are looking for a relationship. If it's casual, then it's not a problem as long as you aren't being used and are having fun.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

1. She sucks
2. She swallows

 

[Hal9000]

Very true.... especially if she has female relatives that she isn't close with. But all this only matters if you are looking for a relationship. If it's casual, then it's not a problem as long as you aren't being used and are having fun.

Absolutely. Those types are actually quite fun for casual sex but thats about it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She listens to Hall And Oates