"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Top 10 songs of the 90's

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List your top 10 or even more songs of the 90's and why you feel that they are in that list.
Here is my list:

1."tha crossroadz"- bone thugz & harmony- Best rap song ever, brilliant song

2."kiss from a rose"- seal- Beautiful melody

3."counting blue cars"- diswalla- the vibe of the song just takes you to another level

4."on bended knee"- boyz II men- No group in the 90's blended their voices together like Boyz II Men

5."one sweet day"- mariah carey & boyz II Men- Classic song, great message

6."take a bow"- madonna-Babyface did an excellent job producing this song for Madonna and lending background vocals

7."3 A.M."- Matchbox Twenty-Rob Thomas voice excels in this song

8."good enough"- sarah mclachlan- Beautiful voice, beautiful song

9."Better Man"- Pearl Jam- Just one of those songs that you can't stop listening too

10."dreaming of you"- selena
10.Again"- Janet Jackson- Close choice between these two songs, Selena of course died at the age of 24, and Jennifer Lopez got her big break by portraying her in the movie "Selena". Janet Jackson does a great job with a wonderful melody in this song
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can't think that hard bro!
 

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90s? And yet you exclude -

Ice Ice Baby- Vanilla Ice.

You're a loser!
 

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MAVER1CK said:
90s? And yet you exclude -

Ice Ice Baby- Vanilla Ice.

You're a loser!
Dear god no.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh, not the fvcking Macarena!!! Dear God, NO!

Here's a few that quickly died out:

Jump - Kris Kross (I believe this broke a record for the length of time it was on the charts)
Achy Breaky Heart - Billy Ray Cyrus
Candle In The Wind (new version) - Elton John
Mmmmm Bop - Hanson
I'll Be There For You - The Rembrandts
My Baby Loves A Bunch Of Authors - Moxy Fruvus
Informer - Snow
Tubthumping - Chumbawumba
Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
I'm Too Sexy - Right Said Fred

And to think we had to live through this 5hit.
 

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You said it all with Crossroads- Bone Thugz and Harmony! Awesome song
Another would have to be What its Like- Everlast
 

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I think that the "main" songs for the 90s were:

Tubthumping (Chumbawamba)
Bittersweet Symphony (Verve)
Californication (Red Hot Chili Peppers)
Give It Away (Red Hot Chili Peppers)
Basket Case (Green Day)
Pretty Fly (Offspring)
Barbie Girl (Aqua)
Adam's Song (Blink 182)
I Don't Want To Miss A Thing (Aerosmith)
La Copa De La Vida (Ricky Martin)
Smells Like Teen Spirit (Nirvana)
Baby One More Time (Britney Spears)
My Heart Will Go On (Celine Dion)


I had to leave out these 3 great songs because they are from Y2K exactly:

It's My Life (Bon Jovi)
Freestyler (Bomfunk MC's)
Rock DJ (Robbie Williams)
 

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the number 1 played SONG of the 90s.... one of the top singles of all time...

ICE ICE BABY... now you SOB's need to recognise~!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nobody's mentioned Can't Touch This - mc hammer, either.
 

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Yes... nice thread for once... I love music.

The Cardigans - Lovefool
No Doubt - Don't Speak
Counting Crows - Mr. Jones
Ben Folds Five - Brick
Deep Blue Something - Breakfast At Tiffany's

Dave Matthews Band
Ginuwine
Boyz II Men
Tony Rich Project
Five For Fighting

Beat those classics!
 

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piranha45 said:
nobody's mentioned Can't Touch This - mc hammer, either.

screw that *******. He only won the award over VI because he was black and thats the time when the "feel sorry for african americans" revolution took place.
 

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Anything Creed, Oasis, or Bush and you have your 90's sir.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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