“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Top 10 songs of the 90's

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List your top 10 or even more songs of the 90's and why you feel that they are in that list.
Here is my list:

1."tha crossroadz"- bone thugz & harmony- Best rap song ever, brilliant song

2."kiss from a rose"- seal- Beautiful melody

3."counting blue cars"- diswalla- the vibe of the song just takes you to another level

4."on bended knee"- boyz II men- No group in the 90's blended their voices together like Boyz II Men

5."one sweet day"- mariah carey & boyz II Men- Classic song, great message

6."take a bow"- madonna-Babyface did an excellent job producing this song for Madonna and lending background vocals

7."3 A.M."- Matchbox Twenty-Rob Thomas voice excels in this song

8."good enough"- sarah mclachlan- Beautiful voice, beautiful song

9."Better Man"- Pearl Jam- Just one of those songs that you can't stop listening too

10."dreaming of you"- selena
10.Again"- Janet Jackson- Close choice between these two songs, Selena of course died at the age of 24, and Jennifer Lopez got her big break by portraying her in the movie "Selena". Janet Jackson does a great job with a wonderful melody in this song
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I can't think that hard bro!
 

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90s? And yet you exclude -

Ice Ice Baby- Vanilla Ice.

You're a loser!
 

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MAVER1CK said:
90s? And yet you exclude -

Ice Ice Baby- Vanilla Ice.

You're a loser!
Dear god no.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh, not the fvcking Macarena!!! Dear God, NO!

Here's a few that quickly died out:

Jump - Kris Kross (I believe this broke a record for the length of time it was on the charts)
Achy Breaky Heart - Billy Ray Cyrus
Candle In The Wind (new version) - Elton John
Mmmmm Bop - Hanson
I'll Be There For You - The Rembrandts
My Baby Loves A Bunch Of Authors - Moxy Fruvus
Informer - Snow
Tubthumping - Chumbawumba
Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
I'm Too Sexy - Right Said Fred

And to think we had to live through this 5hit.
 

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You said it all with Crossroads- Bone Thugz and Harmony! Awesome song
Another would have to be What its Like- Everlast
 

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I think that the "main" songs for the 90s were:

Tubthumping (Chumbawamba)
Bittersweet Symphony (Verve)
Californication (Red Hot Chili Peppers)
Give It Away (Red Hot Chili Peppers)
Basket Case (Green Day)
Pretty Fly (Offspring)
Barbie Girl (Aqua)
Adam's Song (Blink 182)
I Don't Want To Miss A Thing (Aerosmith)
La Copa De La Vida (Ricky Martin)
Smells Like Teen Spirit (Nirvana)
Baby One More Time (Britney Spears)
My Heart Will Go On (Celine Dion)


I had to leave out these 3 great songs because they are from Y2K exactly:

It's My Life (Bon Jovi)
Freestyler (Bomfunk MC's)
Rock DJ (Robbie Williams)
 

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the number 1 played SONG of the 90s.... one of the top singles of all time...

ICE ICE BABY... now you SOB's need to recognise~!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nobody's mentioned Can't Touch This - mc hammer, either.
 

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Yes... nice thread for once... I love music.

The Cardigans - Lovefool
No Doubt - Don't Speak
Counting Crows - Mr. Jones
Ben Folds Five - Brick
Deep Blue Something - Breakfast At Tiffany's

Dave Matthews Band
Ginuwine
Boyz II Men
Tony Rich Project
Five For Fighting

Beat those classics!
 

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piranha45 said:
nobody's mentioned Can't Touch This - mc hammer, either.

screw that *******. He only won the award over VI because he was black and thats the time when the "feel sorry for african americans" revolution took place.
 

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Anything Creed, Oasis, or Bush and you have your 90's sir.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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