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You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I think that was the point...Credos said:What a joke![]()
David Wong is a "she"??Credos said:the writer clearly had a bad life and feels she has to project herself on other to make her feel better...
My question to her would be, what makes her so credible to tell me how bad life is, cause clearly how she writes, her life is sh!t and she hasen't done anything but write sh!t aswell
What a joke![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrRuckus said:Why is it okay to naturally pick up ways of relating to other people but if you go and look it up and learn it from others then you're a douche?
You're pretty much born with little social skills and learn most of it along the way. Some have more opportunity, better parents or whatever, and learn more. Others simply don't learn as much. Maybe they're just naturally introverted and don't want to be around people as much so they learn less social skills than others.
So those who aren't naturals through life experience look up how to learn social skills. Learning pick up skills is basically learning social skills. What is wrong with that? As if women don't spend their entire lives learning what to say and do to men to get what they want out of them, even when it's not intended maliciously. No one berates them for reading Cosmo or having their silly "let's talk about boys all night" sleepovers.
It's okay to buy books about "beating your shyness" but not books on relating to women and getting them to WANT to (note: they WANT TO and enjoy it) bang you?
Giving a woman sexual pleasure is not immoral. And the example in this article is "make you want to gain their approval (by letting them touch your boobs)." Is that not manipulating a guy to make him like and approve of you?
So whatever, they do the same sh1t, and none of it is wrong.
That's erroneous, good sir. Homeopathic "medicines" contain less than one molecule of their supposed medicine. Homeopathy operates on the premise of diluting substances in half 30 times and violates Avagardo's Number. There's literally not one particle of medicine. Homeopathy originates from the 18th century and was considered a better alternative to the contemporary practice of drilling holes in people's heads, which created lethal infections. Doing nothing was safer than doing something. Nowadays, you will find people who swear homeopathic medicines work, but any positive effects can be attributed solely to the placebo effect and coincidence (they would get spontaneously healthier from their sickness anyway).squirrels said:It takes certain things to extremes (for example, some "homeopathic" cures do have some merit), but despite its cynical outlook, for the most part it is true.
Off topic, but have you ever watched Brian Dunning's "Here Be Dragons"?Rogue said:That's erroneous, good sir. Homeopathic "medicines" contain less than one molecule of their supposed medicine. Homeopathy operates on the premise of diluting substances in half 30 times and violates Avagardo's Number. There's literally not one particle of medicine. Homeopathy originates from the 18th century and was considered a better alternative to the contemporary practice of drilling holes in people's heads, which created lethal infections. Doing nothing was safer than doing something. Nowadays, you will find people who swear homeopathic medicines work, but any positive effects can be attributed solely to the placebo effect and coincidence (they would get spontaneously healthier from their sickness anyway).
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What? Are you retarded?nivapimpru said:What should these spoiled women contribute? Vagina?
"there could be a firm scientific foundation for homeopathy" and "there is be a firm scientific foundation for homeopathy" are two different statements.d!ckmojo said:seems like some heavy-weight nobel prize-winning scientist decided to come out in support of my position on homeopathy... http://www.theaustralian.com.au/new...meopathy-a-boost/story-e6frg8y6-1225887772305
KingofHearts said:Why do you think guys get shamed out of researching how to attract girls?? What is the motivation for stopping a guy from learning these social tools?
1) Anecdotes are not scientific evidence.d!ckmojo:
With regards to homeopathy, all the ppl who say "oh that doesn't work, it couldn't possibly work blah blah blah" have never even tried it! I have, and can tell you that it does help. Its disingenous to say 'Homeopathic "medicines" contain less than one molecule of their supposed medicine. Homeopathy operates on the premise of diluting substances in half 30 times and violates Avagardo's Number. There's literally not one particle of medicine.' You completely ingnore the school of thought that underpins it: Its not a pharmacuetical drug! The whole philosophy and treatment principle is completely different to medicine, that's why the discipline is not called 'medicine', its called 'homeopathy'.
Smart people believe dumb things. Luc Montagnier is a quack. He published his 'findings' in a published 'journal' for which he himself is the editor. That's not exactly peer-review.seems like some heavy-weight nobel prize-winning scientist decided to come out in support of my position on homeopathy... http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news...-1225887772305
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So women think learning un-natural techniques is manipulation, but they don't see how they manipulate guys in their in own ways. Ah, convenient double standardsmrRuckus said:Women don't like their games turned on them.
Women want to have power over men (or think that's what they want...)
Women think it's evil manipulation.
KingofHearts said:So women think learning un-natural techniques is manipulation, but they don't see how they manipulate guys in their in own ways. Ah, convenient double standards
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.