"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Top 10 Female Sexual Fantasies

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The whole list has got hairs on it. Fluff for emasculated betas who are still bedazzled by hors, or who at least are told 24/7 they should be. I also call major BS on what is apparently a woman's 2nd hottest fantasy "Strap-on up a man's ass" Really? REALLY? Imitating masculine roles supposedly moistens up the panties eh? Yeah I don't think so.

The only interesting thing was prior to the list you'll notice stolen and repackaged sh!t from the manosphere. A big change from 10 years ago.
 

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Doesn't surprise me in the least. #1 did before I started frequenting a particular kink social networking site. It's a very common thing in that world, apparently. Being into kink, myself, but not that, I was surprised at how common that fantasy is. But it is.

Bear in mind, it's fantasy based on consentual non-consent, not actual rape. Also bear in mind that those who attempt to fulfil this particular type of fantasy must be very careful to document clear consent or they can find themselves in serious trouble. In other words, don't try this at home. But some do go to great lengths to try to scratch this itch.

It may be urban legend but I read something a while back from, I think, australia where a couple of guys witnessed 5 men forcing a woman into the back of a van in broad daylight on a busy city street. They find some police and tell them what they saw. On further investigation of the van the cops hear screams from within, so they open the doors revealing a gang rape in progress. As they are subduing the offenders, the woman screams at them "You idiots, it took me 6 months to arrange this."

The one that surprised me was that women domming guys even made the top 10. There are like 3 capable real dominant women for every 10000 men looking for that or something. Again, just fantasy, not something most will ever act on, which explains the discrepancy.
 

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I also call major BS on what is apparently a woman's 2nd hottest fantasy "Strap-on up a man's ass" Really? REALLY? Imitating masculine roles supposedly moistens up the panties eh? Yeah I don't think so.
That at #2 surprised me also....Gazillion male subs looking for that too that can't find partners.
 

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The whole list has got hairs on it. Fluff for emasculated betas who are still bedazzled by hors, or who at least are told 24/7 they should be. I also call major BS on what is apparently a woman's 2nd hottest fantasy "Strap-on up a man's ass" Really? REALLY? Imitating masculine roles supposedly moistens up the panties eh? Yeah I don't think so.

The only interesting thing was prior to the list you'll notice stolen and repackaged sh!t from the manosphere. A big change from 10 years ago.
I talk sex with every victim i slide my knife into ...

I've heard everything on this list before... Straight from the *****ses mouth...

I don't think it's 2nd. But a lot of women have the "strap-on" up a man's @ss thing... Either as a fantasy, or they've done it....... If they'd actually get turned on by it when the time came to do it - is another story.... It tends to be an "older woman" fantasy... Meaning mostly women who are on the plus side of 30... Mostly divorced, etc.

Which could explain it to some extent.


The clear cut #1 fantasy I get from women is rape though. Some can paint a really vivid picture of what it'd look like as well! I'd say 5 out of 10 women I talk to about sex have rape as their fantasy.

I actually tried the rape fantasy thing once with a woman.... And.... It's way more work for the man and not really fun. She struggled the whole time and I had to constantly keep her pinned down...

She really enjoyed it though...
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I talk sex with every victim i slide my knife into ...

I've heard everything on this list before... Straight from the *****ses mouth...
I'm hearing you, but they say alot of things which doesn't revolve around making me a sandwich. I figure she can have her fantasies of getting banged by a giraffe whilst drinking a mimosa while I play the accordion in a space suit or whatever it is this week. I'll stick with treating her mean and giving her the odd orgasm, seems to be working out not too bad so far.
 

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I actually tried the rape fantasy thing once with a woman.... And.... It's way more work for the man and not really fun. She struggled the whole time and I had to constantly keep her pinned down...

She really enjoyed it though...
Lucky you - when I tried it, she loved it for a few minutes, then it got 'too intense' and she broke down in tears, freaking out, etc (from memories of an actual rape or somesuch).

It's definitely the most common fantasy, though.
 

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and yet b!tches think foot/shoe fetishes are "creepy", "odd", "weird".:crackup:
 

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Lucky you - when I tried it, she loved it for a few minutes, then it got 'too intense' and she broke down in tears, freaking out, etc (from memories of an actual rape or somesuch).

It's definitely the most common fantasy, though.
Well, that story is absolutely terrible. I would have immediately been scared that she was going to try to accuse me of real rape.

It wasn't "lucky" me though.... Sh!t was terrible for me... Wayyyyy too much work... I don't mind long sex or good hard sex, but having to hold down a fighting woman for 20-30 minutes while at the same time trying to get off is not something i ever want to do...
 

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I believe to that strapon thing, the girl I banged in january was into anal play and let me bang her ass on date 2 (date 1 was normal sex), then while we were ****-fighting (she didnt like smt I said) she told me that she wanted to bring her c0ck shaped dildo and stick it in my ass till the balls.

She had the best ass I've ever had in my bed, just had to sleep with an eye open with her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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99% of men these days are faggots they might as well become dildo puppets for women.
 

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Well, that story is absolutely terrible. I would have immediately been scared that she was going to try to accuse me of real rape.
We'd been together for a year and a half, two years, at that point, so it's not something that was just out of the blue, we had a good trust. Just... awkward, definitely not the turn-out I had wanted.

I hear you though. I like to get a little rough, but full on fantasy is better as simply fantasy, because it's hard to imitate fantasy in real life (it just doesn't work the way either party wants...).
 

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99% of men these days are faggots they might as well become dildo puppets for women.
Good point well made.
 

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honestly...im not suprized and tis is good information...next time u meet a girl who u think wants to "make love" go crazy on her choke her, throw her around...she will prob like it....especially b.c rape is the number one....just dont take it to far
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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honestly...im not suprized and tis is good information...next time u meet a girl who u think wants to "make love" go crazy on her choke her, throw her around...she will prob like it....especially b.c rape is the number one....just dont take it to far
Haha. Want a one way ticket to rejections/LJBF? Tell a female you want to "make love."

The strap on thing is troubling. It's media h omo-er otic brainwashing that even makes straight women want to do pseudo gay/ l ez stuff. But I agree it's common.
 

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Haha. Want a one way ticket to rejections/LJBF? Tell a female you want to "make love."

The strap on thing is troubling. It's media h omo-er otic brainwashing that even makes straight women want to do pseudo gay/ l ez stuff. But I agree it's common.
I wasnt saying to tell a female "iwanna make love" thats beta as sh1t...imsaying when u see a girly girly nice valley chick, and u think she would want it soft....give it to her hard
 

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Didn't read the top ten but I'd be willing to bet if it's not on there spending a dudes money would be a top "Sexual fantasy" of women's they love making come true.
 

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Doesn't surprise me in the least. #1 did before I started frequenting a particular kink social networking site. It's a very common thing in that world, apparently. Being into kink, myself, but not that, I was surprised at how common that fantasy is. But it is.

Bear in mind, it's fantasy based on consentual non-consent, not actual rape. Also bear in mind that those who attempt to fulfil this particular type of fantasy must be very careful to document clear consent or they can find themselves in serious trouble. In other words, don't try this at home. But some do go to great lengths to try to scratch this itch.

It may be urban legend but I read something a while back from, I think, australia where a couple of guys witnessed 5 men forcing a woman into the back of a van in broad daylight on a busy city street. They find some police and tell them what they saw. On further investigation of the van the cops hear screams from within, so they open the doors revealing a gang rape in progress. As they are subduing the offenders, the woman screams at them "You idiots, it took me 6 months to arrange this."

The one that surprised me was that women domming guys even made the top 10. There are like 3 capable real dominant women for every 10000 men looking for that or something. Again, just fantasy, not something most will ever act on, which explains the discrepancy.
What's your user name on fetlife?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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