http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-yh3PxvF5JI
What do you make of this?
The top three is a bit of an eye opener.
What do you make of this?
The top three is a bit of an eye opener.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That at #2 surprised me also....Gazillion male subs looking for that too that can't find partners.( . )( . ) said:I also call major BS on what is apparently a woman's 2nd hottest fantasy "Strap-on up a man's ass" Really? REALLY? Imitating masculine roles supposedly moistens up the panties eh? Yeah I don't think so.
I talk sex with every victim i slide my knife into ...( . )( . ) said:The whole list has got hairs on it. Fluff for emasculated betas who are still bedazzled by hors, or who at least are told 24/7 they should be. I also call major BS on what is apparently a woman's 2nd hottest fantasy "Strap-on up a man's ass" Really? REALLY? Imitating masculine roles supposedly moistens up the panties eh? Yeah I don't think so.
The only interesting thing was prior to the list you'll notice stolen and repackaged sh!t from the manosphere. A big change from 10 years ago.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm hearing you, but they say alot of things which doesn't revolve around making me a sandwich. I figure she can have her fantasies of getting banged by a giraffe whilst drinking a mimosa while I play the accordion in a space suit or whatever it is this week. I'll stick with treating her mean and giving her the odd orgasm, seems to be working out not too bad so far.bukowski_merit said:I talk sex with every victim i slide my knife into ...
I've heard everything on this list before... Straight from the *****ses mouth...
Lucky you - when I tried it, she loved it for a few minutes, then it got 'too intense' and she broke down in tears, freaking out, etc (from memories of an actual rape or somesuch).bukowski_merit said:I actually tried the rape fantasy thing once with a woman.... And.... It's way more work for the man and not really fun. She struggled the whole time and I had to constantly keep her pinned down...
She really enjoyed it though...
Well, that story is absolutely terrible. I would have immediately been scared that she was going to try to accuse me of real rape.Plutoman said:Lucky you - when I tried it, she loved it for a few minutes, then it got 'too intense' and she broke down in tears, freaking out, etc (from memories of an actual rape or somesuch).
It's definitely the most common fantasy, though.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
We'd been together for a year and a half, two years, at that point, so it's not something that was just out of the blue, we had a good trust. Just... awkward, definitely not the turn-out I had wanted.bukowski_merit said:Well, that story is absolutely terrible. I would have immediately been scared that she was going to try to accuse me of real rape.
Good point well made.Burroughs said:99% of men these days are faggots they might as well become dildo puppets for women.
crazy and sad...but truthBurroughs said:99% of men these days are faggots they might as well become dildo puppets for women.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Haha. Want a one way ticket to rejections/LJBF? Tell a female you want to "make love."j0504s said:honestly...im not suprized and tis is good information...next time u meet a girl who u think wants to "make love" go crazy on her choke her, throw her around...she will prob like it....especially b.c rape is the number one....just dont take it to far
I wasnt saying to tell a female "iwanna make love" thats beta as sh1t...imsaying when u see a girly girly nice valley chick, and u think she would want it soft....give it to her hardMike32ct said:Haha. Want a one way ticket to rejections/LJBF? Tell a female you want to "make love."
The strap on thing is troubling. It's media h omo-er otic brainwashing that even makes straight women want to do pseudo gay/ l ez stuff. But I agree it's common.
I got what you meant and fully agree. I went off on a slight tangent.j0504s said:I wasnt saying to tell a female "iwanna make love" thats beta as sh1t...imsaying when u see a girly girly nice valley chick, and u think she would want it soft....give it to her hard
What's your user name on fetlife?Don_Dom said:Doesn't surprise me in the least. #1 did before I started frequenting a particular kink social networking site. It's a very common thing in that world, apparently. Being into kink, myself, but not that, I was surprised at how common that fantasy is. But it is.
Bear in mind, it's fantasy based on consentual non-consent, not actual rape. Also bear in mind that those who attempt to fulfil this particular type of fantasy must be very careful to document clear consent or they can find themselves in serious trouble. In other words, don't try this at home. But some do go to great lengths to try to scratch this itch.
It may be urban legend but I read something a while back from, I think, australia where a couple of guys witnessed 5 men forcing a woman into the back of a van in broad daylight on a busy city street. They find some police and tell them what they saw. On further investigation of the van the cops hear screams from within, so they open the doors revealing a gang rape in progress. As they are subduing the offenders, the woman screams at them "You idiots, it took me 6 months to arrange this."
The one that surprised me was that women domming guys even made the top 10. There are like 3 capable real dominant women for every 10000 men looking for that or something. Again, just fantasy, not something most will ever act on, which explains the discrepancy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.