"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Took on a dare and came out victorious

eaglez1177

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Thought I might share this experience with you all lol.

Yesterday at lunch during school I was just sitting at the table with my friends, and eventually we start talking about approaching random girls and asking them to hang out.

Eventually, it turned into a dare where one of us had to approach a really hot girl, get her num, and ask her to hang out.

Everyone was egging me on to do it, so I said, "hey why not." and left the table by telling all of them "regret is worse than rejection".

I walked aimlessly through the lunchroom for a few seconds, until I spotted this one really hot freshman girl (im a senior, so I dont plan on doing anything, but still, this chick was mad hot).

I go up to her and say "Hey I think your pretty cute, whats your name?" She replies "Maddy". I say back, "My name's eaglez7711, whats your number we should hang out some time". She gave it right to me lol, and that was the end of the convo.

Im posting this not to brag, but for the reaction I received from everyone else after I landed her number. The girls at the tables were practically eye-fvcking me, and looked like they wanted to rip my pants off right that moment. This one chick was just staring me down giving me the sexiest look, and idk why lol. I think its because they saw how confident I was, and were like "Wow I want to fvck him".

Then, when I got back to my lunch table, everyone gave me mad props, and said I had a real pair of balls. It seemed all the guys were WISHING they had the confidence to do what I had just done.

It just amazes me at the great positive effects you can receive when you go into a situation confident and cool, and how everyone around you notices and catches that "player vibe"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Beavis

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When people (including me ) can swallow the fear, it be alot easier. Luckily you had a good experience, and not have them laugh you off.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's-Me

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eaglez1177 said:
Thought I might share this experience with you all lol.

Yesterday at lunch during school I was just sitting at the table with my friends, and eventually we start talking about approaching random girls and asking them to hang out.

Eventually, it turned into a dare where one of us had to approach a really hot girl, get her num, and ask her to hang out.

Everyone was egging me on to do it, so I said, "hey why not." and left the table by telling all of them "regret is worse than rejection".

I walked aimlessly through the lunchroom for a few seconds, until I spotted this one really hot freshman girl (im a senior, so I dont plan on doing anything, but still, this chick was mad hot).

I go up to her and say "Hey I think your pretty cute, whats your name?" She replies "Maddy". I say back, "My name's eaglez7711, whats your number we should hang out some time". She gave it right to me lol, and that was the end of the convo.

Im posting this not to brag, but for the reaction I received from everyone else after I landed her number. The girls at the tables were practically eye-fvcking me, and looked like they wanted to rip my pants off right that moment. This one chick was just staring me down giving me the sexiest look, and idk why lol. I think its because they saw how confident I was, and were like "Wow I want to fvck him".

Then, when I got back to my lunch table, everyone gave me mad props, and said I had a real pair of balls. It seemed all the guys were WISHING they had the confidence to do what I had just done.

It just amazes me at the great positive effects you can receive when you go into a situation confident and cool, and how everyone around you notices and catches that "player vibe"
I've already done that lmao
 

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Yes I was named eaglez7711 lmao.

And I know most players have already done this, and I know its not a huge deal, but like I said the main reason why I felt compelled to post it was simply because of the amazing and stunning reactions from everyone around me.

While she was giving me the number, legit like two lunch tables stared at me with all these different looks lol
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Yes I was named eaglez7711 lmao.

And I know most players have already done this, and I know its not a huge deal, but like I said the main reason why I felt compelled to post it was simply because of the amazing and stunning reactions from everyone around me.

While she was giving me the number, legit like two lunch tables stared at me with all these different looks lol
cause most hs guys are too afraid to approach...to be quite honest, it seems as though the guys at school we deem "players" "naturals" ..MOST OF THEM, not all, seem to get the ladies through connections..they know a friend who knows a girl or knows a friend who knows somebody who knows this girl.

when in actuality, they don't have what it takes to approach a girl they have no connection to...and soemtimes, even a girl they have a minor connection to...they may not be afc's but they aren't really dj's...nothing wrong with how they do it, but once they get into the real world, they'll see that they won't be able to know every attractive girl...yet some of them may be successful with approaches, but many will not know how to..or be able to..because they lack experience and will have to gain soem first

Either way, start encouraging your friends to approach girls they don't know...and make sure they don't do it creepily
 

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I've started doing this too, yo.

Last 3 days (in order):

thursday:

-junior HB8
-junior HB8

friday:

-sophmore HB7

saturday:

-built a lot of attraction with an HB7 who's number I already had off a Facebook numbers group I made before

Now its time for me to actually do something with these numbers....
 

eaglez1177

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jeffthechef said:
cause most hs guys are too afraid to approach...to be quite honest, it seems as though the guys at school we deem "players" "naturals" ..MOST OF THEM, not all, seem to get the ladies through connections..they know a friend who knows a girl or knows a friend who knows somebody who knows this girl.

when in actuality, they don't have what it takes to approach a girl they have no connection to...and soemtimes, even a girl they have a minor connection to...they may not be afc's but they aren't really dj's...nothing wrong with how they do it, but once they get into the real world, they'll see that they won't be able to know every attractive girl...yet some of them may be successful with approaches, but many will not know how to..or be able to..because they lack experience and will have to gain soem first

Either way, start encouraging your friends to approach girls they don't know...and make sure they don't do it creepily
Ya I actually think we're gonna try to make this a "game" at our lunch table; where like every day or every few days one of us has to go up to a random chick to approach
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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