"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Took on a dare and came out victorious

eaglez1177

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Thought I might share this experience with you all lol.

Yesterday at lunch during school I was just sitting at the table with my friends, and eventually we start talking about approaching random girls and asking them to hang out.

Eventually, it turned into a dare where one of us had to approach a really hot girl, get her num, and ask her to hang out.

Everyone was egging me on to do it, so I said, "hey why not." and left the table by telling all of them "regret is worse than rejection".

I walked aimlessly through the lunchroom for a few seconds, until I spotted this one really hot freshman girl (im a senior, so I dont plan on doing anything, but still, this chick was mad hot).

I go up to her and say "Hey I think your pretty cute, whats your name?" She replies "Maddy". I say back, "My name's eaglez7711, whats your number we should hang out some time". She gave it right to me lol, and that was the end of the convo.

Im posting this not to brag, but for the reaction I received from everyone else after I landed her number. The girls at the tables were practically eye-fvcking me, and looked like they wanted to rip my pants off right that moment. This one chick was just staring me down giving me the sexiest look, and idk why lol. I think its because they saw how confident I was, and were like "Wow I want to fvck him".

Then, when I got back to my lunch table, everyone gave me mad props, and said I had a real pair of balls. It seemed all the guys were WISHING they had the confidence to do what I had just done.

It just amazes me at the great positive effects you can receive when you go into a situation confident and cool, and how everyone around you notices and catches that "player vibe"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When people (including me ) can swallow the fear, it be alot easier. Luckily you had a good experience, and not have them laugh you off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's-Me

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eaglez1177 said:
Thought I might share this experience with you all lol.

Yesterday at lunch during school I was just sitting at the table with my friends, and eventually we start talking about approaching random girls and asking them to hang out.

Eventually, it turned into a dare where one of us had to approach a really hot girl, get her num, and ask her to hang out.

Everyone was egging me on to do it, so I said, "hey why not." and left the table by telling all of them "regret is worse than rejection".

I walked aimlessly through the lunchroom for a few seconds, until I spotted this one really hot freshman girl (im a senior, so I dont plan on doing anything, but still, this chick was mad hot).

I go up to her and say "Hey I think your pretty cute, whats your name?" She replies "Maddy". I say back, "My name's eaglez7711, whats your number we should hang out some time". She gave it right to me lol, and that was the end of the convo.

Im posting this not to brag, but for the reaction I received from everyone else after I landed her number. The girls at the tables were practically eye-fvcking me, and looked like they wanted to rip my pants off right that moment. This one chick was just staring me down giving me the sexiest look, and idk why lol. I think its because they saw how confident I was, and were like "Wow I want to fvck him".

Then, when I got back to my lunch table, everyone gave me mad props, and said I had a real pair of balls. It seemed all the guys were WISHING they had the confidence to do what I had just done.

It just amazes me at the great positive effects you can receive when you go into a situation confident and cool, and how everyone around you notices and catches that "player vibe"
I've already done that lmao
 

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Yes I was named eaglez7711 lmao.

And I know most players have already done this, and I know its not a huge deal, but like I said the main reason why I felt compelled to post it was simply because of the amazing and stunning reactions from everyone around me.

While she was giving me the number, legit like two lunch tables stared at me with all these different looks lol
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Yes I was named eaglez7711 lmao.

And I know most players have already done this, and I know its not a huge deal, but like I said the main reason why I felt compelled to post it was simply because of the amazing and stunning reactions from everyone around me.

While she was giving me the number, legit like two lunch tables stared at me with all these different looks lol
cause most hs guys are too afraid to approach...to be quite honest, it seems as though the guys at school we deem "players" "naturals" ..MOST OF THEM, not all, seem to get the ladies through connections..they know a friend who knows a girl or knows a friend who knows somebody who knows this girl.

when in actuality, they don't have what it takes to approach a girl they have no connection to...and soemtimes, even a girl they have a minor connection to...they may not be afc's but they aren't really dj's...nothing wrong with how they do it, but once they get into the real world, they'll see that they won't be able to know every attractive girl...yet some of them may be successful with approaches, but many will not know how to..or be able to..because they lack experience and will have to gain soem first

Either way, start encouraging your friends to approach girls they don't know...and make sure they don't do it creepily
 

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I've started doing this too, yo.

Last 3 days (in order):

thursday:

-junior HB8
-junior HB8

friday:

-sophmore HB7

saturday:

-built a lot of attraction with an HB7 who's number I already had off a Facebook numbers group I made before

Now its time for me to actually do something with these numbers....
 

eaglez1177

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jeffthechef said:
cause most hs guys are too afraid to approach...to be quite honest, it seems as though the guys at school we deem "players" "naturals" ..MOST OF THEM, not all, seem to get the ladies through connections..they know a friend who knows a girl or knows a friend who knows somebody who knows this girl.

when in actuality, they don't have what it takes to approach a girl they have no connection to...and soemtimes, even a girl they have a minor connection to...they may not be afc's but they aren't really dj's...nothing wrong with how they do it, but once they get into the real world, they'll see that they won't be able to know every attractive girl...yet some of them may be successful with approaches, but many will not know how to..or be able to..because they lack experience and will have to gain soem first

Either way, start encouraging your friends to approach girls they don't know...and make sure they don't do it creepily
Ya I actually think we're gonna try to make this a "game" at our lunch table; where like every day or every few days one of us has to go up to a random chick to approach
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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