"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too young for me?

Trance

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Im 22, there is a 17yo chick who's totally into me.

So in the day i met her, i was playing pool, making quite a show there, and a lot of younger chicks were getting impressed. So this chick (i'd say HB7.5) aproached me and started chating me, asked for my number, and wanted to go to the beach with me the next morning. I told her that i probably wont cause im going out that night and bla bla, but if i can i'll sms her.
So a few hours latter she's sending sms's asking if i can go, i say i cant, then she again, cant you plz come bla bla.

So i decide, what the hell, why not and sms her: "i cant tomorrow. But hey, tomorrow i'll be at my place in the afternoon, drop by here" and told her where it is.
She tells me, you really mean that, are you sure? and bla bla, that she has a boyfriend (since a few days ago so, LOL), and that she may feel bad if she comes. Then i ask why and she tells me that a woman is not made of iron.

Next day she got outta work 1h sooner to meet me, and sms saying if she can come to my place. Im still waking up from clubing the last night, and im like wtf?? I tell her im still gona bath and lunch, and i ring her when im ready.
So she went to a cofee where ppl hang out (where she aproached me) to make time and found her friends there, then sms'd me saying that she wasnt feeling confortable cause of what ppl think.

K, just a small story to amuze you guys. Now the question is:
Im 22, she is 17. I would **** her, but i wouldt take her out with me and my friends, cause she really is a lot younger than me! So:

Should i **** her? Or should i not **** her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kineti[C]harm

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If it was me I would cause it's completely legal here... Actually I've been doing a 17 and 18 year old lately and I'm 21, no biggy.
 

Trance

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Here its legal if the older person is under 18, of if there isnt a diference of more than 5 years (so 20 to 15 would be legal and so on).

Its not about being legal. Did anyone dated a so much younger girl here? If so, remarks from your experience, what to expect?
 

Yes I am Flighty

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im 18 and hes 25, the only thing is since shes 17 she may not quite be legal depending on the state, so can you two wait until shes legal? on another note if you get to know her parents they will be much more likely to be okay with it
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dunno whats the law in ur country mate. here in australia, the legal fkin age is 16. so it's fine here.

if i was 40 and 17 year olds are all over me, id hit it.
 

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Yeah if she's pretty mature for her age then i don't think its much of a problem to be dating her, if she isn't forget it, although i think 17 is probably as young as you would want to go. I don't think it would be such a good idea to be ****ing her until she is at least a year older, but thats just me.
 

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I had a shot at a 17 year old about a year ago. (I'm 24 now). She was in a college bar with a fake ID and she seemed really into me. I let her slide because I was worried about "what people woudl think." I really wish I had reconsidered...but then again I've always had a thing for younger girls. :p

If you feel like you're taking advantage of her, then I wouldn't, but if it's just because you're worried about what others are going to think, then that's a bad reason to do/not do anything.

Also bear in mind that 16 is the AOC in my state. I dunno what your laws are.
 

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I already told the law here:

Both over 18 = legal
If one is bellow 18, the max allowed is 5 year diference.
- 18 - 13 ok
- 19 - 14 ok
- 20 - 15 ok
- 21 - 16 ok
- 22 - 17 ok
 

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Originally posted by gOLDENBoy83
I had sex (not sexual intercourse) with my roommate's little sister who is only 16. It's strange to think about it - I'm in college and she just finished 9th grade *g*

Here in Germany it is illegal for an 21 year old person to have sexual intercourse with an 16 year old person because the 16 year old is a minor and the age difference is more than 4 years. I don't know if it's the same for "just sex" but I don't care anyway - she didn't seem immature and I don't think I took advantage of her...
Thats pretty sad. You really need to add some height to your standards.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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KC_Seductive

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Here is an interesting interactive test.

It is a tough test, so don't feel you are a pedophile if you fail:

(Don't worry, its not a bunch of sick stuff)


Click here
 

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I was just a borderline perv! :)
 
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