"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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too young for LTR?

slickjesse

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hey guys. im 20 and in a very serious relationship. we've been together for about 2 years. i feel like i really love her but lately ive been feeling like maybe im too young for such a serious, heading towards marrige relationship. if i break up with her i know i would miss her and i feel like its hard to find someone with this kind of connection. any help?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Spike_the_cowboy

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They tried to tell us we're too young~

Who says that you have to get married? Go for it now, and if it turns to shyte later on you can still get out of it. I know how you feel, I've been there myself more than once. But things can change. Theres no need to tie the knot just yet, so don't fear life so much. Enjoy it while it lasts.

You're not too young, but you will be too old if you wait too long to enjoy life.

:cool:
 

Hollowpoint

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keep doing what you are doing

BUT, I think, before I marry I want to get a good job and move out on my own. So.....at least 5 years from now for ME.

I don't think you should have a rush....nor should you be afraid of it.
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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My first LTR was at the age of thirteen. Are you too young? Not as long as you hang off of marriage until you're both good and ready. Would you sacrifice monetary riches just because you feel like you're too young? Then why would you sacrifice emotional riches?

As long as its a healthy relationship, I say Gung Ho.

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

Austin Allegro

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Agreed. A colleague met his g/f when he was 17, he's been with her exclusively for 17 years and is only now getting married, he seems very happy as far as I can tell, so why knock it. If, on the other hand, he was unhappy, this would be the most AFC thing ever.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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