"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Too Young For Hot Chicks?!

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Made.To.Be.Great

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What up?!

I'm 19-years-old, but I look like I'm 17 or 18 (it depends on the the situation). I'm pretty good-lookin' and I always notice that also older girls (20 to 24) are checkin' me out, but most of the time I'm not sure if I should approach them because women usually prefer older guys. Maybe they are just lookin' at me because I'm handsome, but they still think "unfortunately, he's too young."

Are you approaching girls who are obviously older than you? Or is that an impossible task?

Let me know what you think about this... any experiences?

THANX!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's not impossible, but it's very unlikely you will get anywhere. There are rare cases... I guess.
 
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This thread should be called. “To young for older hot chicks.” I’ve got the same issue as you that I look younger than I am. I’m 22 but almost everybody says I look 18 or 19.

It is possible to hook up with older chicks but I doubt that it can become anything more than a one time fling, which is perfectly fine but don’t expect more. I’m also wondering why go for girls that old? There are plenty of girls that are 18-20 that are gorgeous and that would match much better with you.
 
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**** what you think they want. Pursue what you want, and if they don't want the same thing, then move to the next ones. Easy as that. I have a friend who is 22 and is currently involved with a 17 year old (and no, she isn't desperate, she is infact i'd say a HB 8.5). So just go with the flow, and see how they react to your offers.
 
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Approach these women and if htey ask you about your age, lie to them. Have a one night stand.

Obviously there's the question of morality, but if all they're looking for is sex then tell them your name is Bill Clinton and you're 25.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Made.To.Be.Great
I'm not sure if I should approach them because women usually prefer older guys.
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you are self handicapping YOU ARE MAKING EXCUSES so you have an excuse to fail

you are dooming yourself.

im sure some girls prefer older, but some dont.

or start asking out 18/19 yo/s

whatever, you can get a girl dude
 
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