“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Too well dressed?

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Hey guys,

Never thought this would be an issue, but anyway.

Been going out a fair bit recently and met a whole lot of new women and whatnot.

However, I've noticed that I'm getting a lot of male attention (I'm a heterosexual male) and other girls have commented that I look gay purely because I'm 'too' well presented.

I tend to roll with very similar attire to this stock image I found (minus the glasses - I hate glasses).
http://www.examiner.com/images/blog/wysiwyg/image/trench(1).jpg

My question is, is being too well dressed potentially ruining opportunities for me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FairShake

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People may think you're gay but, in all honesty, enough straight guys have been stealing gay style for AWHILE now that showing a female attention will nip that in the bud pretty quick.

Depending on your audience that is. If you're hanging with blue-collar people, hipsters, nerds, whatever you need to blend a little more if you want to score. There are certain times when you can absolutely dress too well.
 

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Doesn't matter how you dress..

You are doign the approach anyway and initiating talking, just don't dress the total opposit of your attitude.

I tend to overdress, but i like it a lot - girls tend to think i am gay, but i am getting laid anyway :)
 

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FairShake said:
Depending on your audience that is. If you're hanging with blue-collar people, hipsters, nerds, whatever you need to blend a little more if you want to score. There are certain times when you can absolutely dress too well.
Yep, dress appropriately for your audience. It's important to stand out but not like a sore thumb and making people wonder why you're even there to begin with.
 

Rationale

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Fair points guys.

I'd say then that I need to dress more the scene, rather than dress like a boss everywhere I go.

Thanks for the input!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Demonicale

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This is a very good thread, and it's true!..

I alway's dress with a smart shirt, and i've been thinking about dressing down abit to a more casual look.

tonight i'll put it to the test :)
 

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Nah I think you look good, if you feel comfortable wearing it...rock it daily
 
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