"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too tired to workout!

silverwex

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Hi all,

I used to workout every day for a year (about 2 years ago!). But nowadays i feel like ive no energy to even lift a weight!

I get mentally and physically exhausted at the start and then i just cant go on! Any ideas why this is so?!

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NMMWCR

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You aren't eating right and you are dehydrated.
 

DJLiquid

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Originally posted by NMMWCR
You aren't eating right and you are dehydrated.
I agree with this...also make sure you are getting enough sleep and working every body part only once per week...also try to have a free/chill day once a week....where you don't do any cardio or lifting...

-DJLiquid
 

enkai

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Take a week off of training, then when you come back pop some caffine before your workouts, 200 mg are real good they give you a good kick of extra energy also try drinking gatorade during your workout to replenish glucose.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by enkai
Take a week off of training, then when you come back pop some caffine before your workouts, 200 mg are real good they give you a good kick of extra energy also try drinking gatorade during your workout to replenish glucose.
And start working out just every other day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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