"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too the popular guys

Chromeo

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Do you usually call people, guys and girls, to hang out or you just do whatever and whoever hits you up is invited as well?

like do you call or do they call you basically?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thedude4242

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there are two kinds of popular in high school and college.

popular by default- athlete, cheerleader or friends of them

popular because you have it- the people who are popular with everyone.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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People are boring so I try not to leave it up to others. Im the one who makes the plans and invites the friends.

But it goes both ways, I have popular friends who never make plans, just go along with whatever
 
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