"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Too the popular guys

Chromeo

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Do you usually call people, guys and girls, to hang out or you just do whatever and whoever hits you up is invited as well?

like do you call or do they call you basically?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thedude4242

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there are two kinds of popular in high school and college.

popular by default- athlete, cheerleader or friends of them

popular because you have it- the people who are popular with everyone.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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People are boring so I try not to leave it up to others. Im the one who makes the plans and invites the friends.

But it goes both ways, I have popular friends who never make plans, just go along with whatever
 
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