"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i have been reading somethings in here bout not doing stuff for girls but i think i took this too literally or was too rude or maybe im over analyzing.

So this girl asked me to throw something at the trash for her and i said no do it yourself and she was like is too far away and i said no.

then i kinda snapped i was like kidding at the beggining but then i was like just leave me alone!

and now i know it might not seems like something so rude but the way i said it in spanish was like very rude lol and what made me think about this too much was when i saw her look down and turn away... oh well i guess you win some you lose some?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yeah test. A girl of mine did something similar, she took the bag outta the bin then added extra stuff to the bin bag and then asked me to carry it out cos she'd over filled it and it was too heavy. I just laughed and said no. She filled it, she can carry it. Needles to say she did carry it with little effort.

I often turn a women down when she asks me certain questions or I'll ignore her if she asks me things like how much do I miss her, it's not that I won't answer or do them it's cos it means more to do them on my own terms rather than just cos she asked.
 
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You had sort of the right idea, but make it a bit more playful next time.

HB: Throw this away.

You: No, you're closer (to the trash bin).

HB: No, I'm NOT.

You: <Move farther from it. Give slight smile.> You are now lol.

The key is to not let her control you AND not sound angry about it. It's all fun and playful.
 
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hey mike i like your idea.

but haha i was thinking when i see her in class act like nothing happened and guess what she said hi to me and complimented on my shirt lol.

i guess my visions(thanks to this site) that i was having were true. while i was thinking about the poor girl she was getting rammed by someone else. girls really dont care at all lol. i dont know if she was getting rammed but that what i was getting in my head
 
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I'm guessing you're a teenager. If so than yes, you should break her balls over that.

If you're a grownup you look immature arguing over something so petty.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you had to come up with that... obviously if i was an adult i would not be posting silly questions
 
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I always try to turn these situations into a playful trade, "oh yeah? and whats in this for me?" not agreing to but not refusing, you then get into a bit of playful banter and basically its up to you how to play it. always try and get something out of it, no need to be rude or nasty unles she is being really disrespectful, even then a bert stare and a "no I dont think so" will do the trick
 
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