"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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AriMamba

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i have been reading somethings in here bout not doing stuff for girls but i think i took this too literally or was too rude or maybe im over analyzing.

So this girl asked me to throw something at the trash for her and i said no do it yourself and she was like is too far away and i said no.

then i kinda snapped i was like kidding at the beggining but then i was like just leave me alone!

and now i know it might not seems like something so rude but the way i said it in spanish was like very rude lol and what made me think about this too much was when i saw her look down and turn away... oh well i guess you win some you lose some?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yeah test. A girl of mine did something similar, she took the bag outta the bin then added extra stuff to the bin bag and then asked me to carry it out cos she'd over filled it and it was too heavy. I just laughed and said no. She filled it, she can carry it. Needles to say she did carry it with little effort.

I often turn a women down when she asks me certain questions or I'll ignore her if she asks me things like how much do I miss her, it's not that I won't answer or do them it's cos it means more to do them on my own terms rather than just cos she asked.
 
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You had sort of the right idea, but make it a bit more playful next time.

HB: Throw this away.

You: No, you're closer (to the trash bin).

HB: No, I'm NOT.

You: <Move farther from it. Give slight smile.> You are now lol.

The key is to not let her control you AND not sound angry about it. It's all fun and playful.
 
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hey mike i like your idea.

but haha i was thinking when i see her in class act like nothing happened and guess what she said hi to me and complimented on my shirt lol.

i guess my visions(thanks to this site) that i was having were true. while i was thinking about the poor girl she was getting rammed by someone else. girls really dont care at all lol. i dont know if she was getting rammed but that what i was getting in my head
 
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I'm guessing you're a teenager. If so than yes, you should break her balls over that.

If you're a grownup you look immature arguing over something so petty.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you had to come up with that... obviously if i was an adult i would not be posting silly questions
 
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I always try to turn these situations into a playful trade, "oh yeah? and whats in this for me?" not agreing to but not refusing, you then get into a bit of playful banter and basically its up to you how to play it. always try and get something out of it, no need to be rude or nasty unles she is being really disrespectful, even then a bert stare and a "no I dont think so" will do the trick
 
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