Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Too nice, too soon. Need advice on how to recover

biker_gixxer

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I thought about saying a date but that seemed ultra-transparent

Exactly bro, great call.

figure if I paths cross again she will be the one feeling pressure, curiosity, and the lack of closure.

Hey, I think he's snapping out of it! LOL
If she starts to act this way, the power in the situation shifts in your direction, but it's up to you to keep is that way.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Update from Chumpzilla (aka redmenace) thinks it's working

Sent an email breaking our date saturday at the advice of the DJ collective and get this email back today, she also called three times but I didn't answer.

Her reply today:

Hi


I'm a bit surprised but that’s fine. ;-) I understand. Have fun with your friend and let me know what your schedule is like in the next coming weeks. I am leaving to go out of town a week from Friday and will be gone for 5 days. I hope when I get back, we can get together.

In any event, enjoy the performance Saturday night…it should be good.

END

She is out of my directory and I don't plan on returning her phone calls.

Any thought son what my next move should be.

-RM

PS I have two dates lined up for this weekend so I'll be able to keep myself plenty occupied.
 

biker_gixxer

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Isn't it great having all the power?

I would shoot an email back and say something like...'that's cool, look me up when you get back'... END.
 
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