Too much ****y+funny = untrusted

[amoka]

I've noticed that to much of ****y and funny and trying to put her in wonder state makes it hard for her to trust you.

 

[oscarxp25]

Yes.... I have done this before. For a girl to trust you, you have to be serious or willing to listen. If you are being an ass or funny all the time, it makes you one dimensional which is not good at all

 

[Rebound Material]

YES, dont make CnF the only way to talk to her. It screams out "Im too smooth and THAT arrogant" or "I swear I get alot of chicks this way". Yea, have her be able to feel that you can actually get serious...but as soon as she starts talking about some other dood CUT IT.

 

[amoka]

YES, dont make CnF the only way to talk to her. It screams out "Im too smooth and THAT arrogant" or "I swear I get alot of chicks this way". Yea, have her be able to feel that you can actually get serious...but as soon as she starts talking about some other dood CUT IT.

That's right. I nearly not get laid yesturday for being coocky+funny. Luckily for me, this girl has higher IOI for me. I bet her trust in me has gone down by now. I have a lot to do to bring that trust back up. Yeah....

 

[wayword]

C&F primarily creates attraction. Think of it as 1st gear. A lot of torque to start up or plow through hardspots, but not good for higher speeds once you're moving. So when you shift into comfort, you want to tone it down and transition into other techniques that create more comfort, rapport, bonding, etc..

 

[Charm]

GREAT EXPLANATION wayword. If you keep C&F going too much after the 1st gear you can cause distance that originally created attraction!

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

I disagree. She will say stuff like she "I think we have trust issues." Basically this is just testing. Use C&F as much as possible. I disagree with everyones posts above me. You should try to carry on conversations eventually but the more C&F the better.

 

[Thomas94305]

It depends on how you use C&F. If it's sarcasm, or biting at her, then it will cause issues. You want to tease, not hurt. On the other hand, I've busted up about everything, getting on a roll, having a good time. That works like a charm. Only a fraction is directed at her, tho. DeAngelo himself says something like using C&F as a spice, salt and pepper.