Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Did you even read my initial post god you're ignorant, yes most of u morons missed the part where I said I politely asked him NOT to take the number bc she is my gf... And he asked wtf I was goingBorknagar said:
Then why not avoid fighting altogether? You're going to get yourself seriously injured one of these days. It's not worth it, if you get a buzz out of fighting, why not join a Boxing gym and fight in a controlled environment?morepoonplease said:
You're still a douche, nowhere here did you mention you told him she was your gf, from the sounds of it you appeared more as a douche ****blocker. Also your gf went along with it, so why be a **** to the guy? You could have just let her give him her number, and simply dealt with her later "she went along with it" it's not like she said "I have a bf" and he kept insisting. You sound like a prick who can't deal with his women getting a bit of attention. He said he didn't want to fight you, simply cause he'd probably rather just enjoy the night, hell I choose not to fight people I could clearly take down, just cause I'm trying to enjoy the night, and not knock a douche out.morepoonplease said:
^^ what this guy saidBorknagar said:
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
