"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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too much violence in nightlife game, I am done

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theres way too much violence in the nightlife game.
if you approach an hb at the club/bar, her bf/male friend
will come out of no where and punch you in the face.

theres too many guys out there even without gfs
going out at night looking for a fight.

i am done with this b.s. going out getting sucker punched
for no reason. people need to just chill

does anyone agree with me and just stick to day game because of the nightlife
violence?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been going out for years. At least 2x a week for nightgame for the last 2 years, and I know a lot of guys who do the same thing. But never have I gotten into a physical confrontation, nor have most of the guys I know. The only ones who have, they desrved it for not controlling themselves, but never have i heard of someone getting sucker punched in a bar.
 

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r0cky said:
I've been going out for years. At least 2x a week for nightgame for the last 2 years, and I know a lot of guys who do the same thing. But never have I gotten into a physical confrontation, nor have most of the guys I know. The only ones who have, they desrved it for not controlling themselves, but never have i heard of someone getting sucker punched in a bar.
people get sucker punched all the time in the nightlife game.
its too risky, u get shot, u get stabbed, u get punched.
 

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All the guys I know who remain involved in fights are most likely to be the guy who cannot control themselves and put themselves in dangerous situations.

Guys in my same group got pulled away from bouncers or remained involved in fights more than ones while I didnt in those same days and places, why?
Because I know when to chase a girl or not wheterver she is engaged or she simply is a trouble machine, because I give positive vibe and relax also frustrated guys and turn them friendly (something like yeah I know those b1tches play hard to get, I experienced the same problem as you guys).

Needless to say the useless amog on other guys just to prove something...anyway if theres a reason to leave night game is the low success ratio compared to other way, not the potential violence.
 

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Go to more classy/upscale places. Yeah they're might less women and they might be slightly older, but you won't have to watch your back (as much).
I restricted myself to nicer places and as a result have never seen a bar fight.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I've developed the habit of looking at a poster's history before responding to them. Especially when the post seems weird or trollish.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search.php?searchid=1702369

Yeah, so. Either this guy is genuinely a weird person who's SERIOUSLY in need of help with social anxiety. Or he's just a troll.

Either way, no one is getting sucker punched in nightclubs. And if you're experiencing too much violence in your social life, then you need to find new places to hang out.

THE END
 

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If you go to a place with cheap cover and cheap booze you get:

-people sucker punching
-groups of people ganging up on others
-no one really having any fun at all just everyone
sizing each other up
-girls are all man hating with their b shields up

if you go to a classy place with more expensive cover you get:

- old women who have lost their looks
- less fights (they still happen alot though)
- empty wallet at the end of the night
 

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gspshields2 said:
If you go to a place with cheap cover and cheap booze you get:

-people sucker punching
-groups of people ganging up on others
-no one really having any fun at all just everyone
sizing each other up
-girls are all man hating with their b shields up

if you go to a classy place with more expensive cover you get:

- old women who have lost their looks
- less fights (they still happen alot though)
- empty wallet at the end of the night
I never met you and I want to sucker punch you.

Perhaps you are the problem.
 

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Twice (within 2 years of clubbing every single weekend) have I gotten into a fight, one of the times it was because of my friend - and HE deserved it, but I had to stand up for him.

The second time it was a 'sucker pumc' got punched in the face, out of no reaso whatsoever... I just had the guy thrown out, didn't want to get in a fight.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you're not an idiot you won't get hit, some dude was trying to take my gfs number and she went along with it bc we were arguing just before... I said dude don't take her number, he said wtf are you going to do about it; it put both my beer down, respectively let him take the number, confronted him and when he said dude I don't want to fight u I came in with an overhand right; broken nose and orbital and loss of consciousness all from one shot; I ended up taking home a different hb that night bc my gf pissed me off...The guy asked for it. I also used to be a bouncer and most guys who get suckered are truly asking for it.
 

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morepoonplease said:
If you're not an idiot you won't get hit, some dude was trying to take my gfs number and she went along with it bc we were arguing just before... I said dude don't take her number, he said wtf are you going to do about it; it put both my beer down, respectively let him take the number, confronted him and when he said dude I don't want to fight u I came in with an overhand right; broken nose and orbital and loss of consciousness all from one shot; I ended up taking home a different hb that night bc my gf pissed me off...The guy asked for it. I also used to be a bouncer and most guys who get suckered are truly asking for it.

I don't think the guy was an idiot for trying to take your girlfriend's number. I mean, she kinda offered it to him.

Actually, you seem like the bad guy in this situation.

Also, how did you know about all of this guy's injuries? Did you follow him to the hospital and sit down for a chat with the nurse?
 

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Iceberg said:
I don't think the guy was an idiot for trying to take your girlfriend's number. I mean, she kinda offered it to him.

Actually, you seem like the bad guy in this situation.

Also, how did you know about all of this guy's injuries? Did you follow him to the hospital and sit down for a chat with the nurse?
Wow you're blind, I gave him the opportunity to leave the situation and he basically said wtf am I gunna do right in front of my girl c'mon man! And I know about the injuries because I know the bouncer who saw the medic do an "assessment"
 

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Iceberg said:
Also, how did you know about all of this guy's injuries? Did you follow him to the hospital and sit down for a chat with the nurse?
HA HA HA HA - Iceberg, you seem like a gay man gossiping ;)

True though, how did he know?????

The guy seems like a **** - I dont give any respect to somebody who starts fighting with a AFC who dont wanna fight. Wonder if he'd have been so quick to start swinging if it was a big guy who wanted to fight him?????????? :trouble:
 

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morepoonplease said:
Wow you're blind, I gave him the opportunity to leave the situation and he basically said wtf am I gunna do right in front of my girl c'mon man! And I know about the injuries because I know the bouncer who saw the medic do an "assessment"

OK you knew the bouncer.

But the guy didnt wanna fight and you swung at him - you should have just spat **** out that he was a ***** and lame etc etc rather than foookin him up - cool, calm and collected at all times son - remember that........
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Is This The Tough Guy Thread?!?!?!? Im Tough I Punch Bros And Dudes And Nail Babes All The Time Like Every Weekend Bro!!!!
 

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gspshields2 said:
If you go to a place with cheap cover and cheap booze you get:

-people sucker punching
-groups of people ganging up on others
-no one really having any fun at all just everyone
sizing each other up
-girls are all man hating with their b shields up

if you go to a classy place with more expensive cover you get:

- old women who have lost their looks
- less fights (they still happen alot though)
- empty wallet at the end of the night
what ungodly place do you live, sounds like you go to some strip club on 8mile road
 

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Iceberg said:
I don't think the guy was an idiot for trying to take your girlfriend's number. I mean, she kinda offered it to him.

Actually, you seem like the bad guy in this situation.

Also, how did you know about all of this guy's injuries? Did you follow him to the hospital and sit down for a chat with the nurse?
He probably is one of dr house's apprendices, many of those serving in house medical division acquire the gift of telephatic medical diagnosis.

Doctor at day, street fighter at night...would make a great tag line for action movies as well.
 

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morepoonplease said:
Wow you're blind, I gave him the opportunity to leave the situation and he basically said wtf am I gunna do right in front of my girl c'mon man! And I know about the injuries because I know the bouncer who saw the medic do an "assessment"

To me it honestly seems like your lady friend ,was making an effort to get you into sh!t because u made her mad. and you feel for it hook line and sinker , ur lucky you ran off and didnt have to spend the night in jail.

that aside , your description of how you fly in with your punches , makes it very obvious that if this guy was bigger, or ready , things would have ended with him laying you out , and him taking your woman home
 

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I've been gong out for 12 years and have never seen a guy get sucker punched just got trying to talk to a woman. you suck at life!
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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