"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Too much too fast?

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StrongBad

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Hey guys, quick question that I'd appreciate opinions on.

Met a girl, set up a date, and things went very well on the actual date last night. We ended up really hitting it off and were making out pretty intensely by the end of the night. She kept mentioning how much fun she was having and kept complimenting me on my looks, humor, etc.

Now, she just got in touch with me via email asking if I wanted to hang out tomorrow. It would be an all day type thing, going to the beach and probably out to some bars and stuff later. Now, obviously this is a sign of high interest but should I space things out some more? Or should I just strike while the iron is hot to keep her interest up? Any chance that hanging out too much at first could be negative? Thanks...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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Make up an excuss not to hang out with her all day. Go the bars with her at night,chances are you will get laid. Just tell her you have some "business" to take care of during the day.
 
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Ya I'd say something to the effect that you already have plans for the day but could possibly meet up later that night or suggest another day. It seems a bit fast to me as well.
 
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If you accept the date for the next day, it tells her that your not a prize and you don't have other girls chasing you so you have time for her. Do not accept for the next day, say your busy but offer the next night. Do things on your terms, your the man, she wants you to take control.

Her IL isn't going to decrease by making her wait a day, in fact it will increase because she will realize she has to do everything right to win you from the other girls.
 
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