"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too much sex decreasing sex drive?

TheCWord

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Three plates. While I was accumulating them I'd often spend entire days thinking about how I'm going to plow them. When they'd actually get to my place, we'd have marathon sex sessions. I'd have to resist masturbating on off-days (but often caved).

Now that these girls are firmly locked in, I find that I rarely crave sex with the same intensity that I used to. Sometimes it's logical - I bang Plate 1 one night and the next day Plate 2 comes over and I'm just not hungry. But I'll sometimes go 3+ days without seeing any of these girls and I don't go crazy. I don't even jack off.

My biggest concern about it all is that it's affecting my motivation to escalate. A girl will come over and I'm fine to just sit there and not fool around. I always push forward and bang them anyway because I know the importance of keeping my sexual frame - but sometimes it feels like a chore!

Has anyone ever experienced this? How did you get your groove back?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LandingWood

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You need new plates. Focus on something different for a while though. Don't push for sex. Just work on career and all that and create a dry spell for yourself if getting a new plate doesn't solve it.
 

TheCWord

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LandingWood said:
You need new plates. Focus on something different for a while though. Don't push for sex. Just work on career and all that and create a dry spell for yourself if getting a new plate doesn't solve it.
Sadly, I think you're right. Too bad. They're great girls.
 

Dgwizdal

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Same sh!t happened to me this summer. Trying to balance 4 plates is tuff and draining. Sometimes I would just shut my phone off and sit at home to enjoy being along. Having sex 6 times with four different girls in 5 days consistently was a drain and these girls were hot. Take a few days for yourself to hang out with the bros or sit at home and do nothing. You'll feel better and rejuvenated. Your plates will begin to dwindle down bc of your non committment/emotional unavailabilty eventually and then it'll be up to you to focus on 1 or 2 while bettering yourself.
 

Jair213

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if your going to be having that much sex you need to be supplementing
zinc(40 mg daily)
magnesium(600 mg daily)
Vitamind D(6000 IU daily)
Vitamin B Complex

it replenishes you quick and you dont feel as drained.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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foreverAFC

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i really feel sorry for the agony you are experiencing
 
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