Too much red pill?

[DaCokeZero]

I've come to a stage in my life where I've grown more and more introvert. Basically because woman are hypertrophy and I just can't imagine myself being the best they can get. There is always someone better than me that they could be with.

I see a girl I like and immediately think "yeah well you're just a ****". It has gone terribly, terribly wrong and I feel like it's only getting worse.

 

[AlexKaiser]

I've come to a stage in my life where I've grown more and more introvert. Basically because woman are hypertrophy and I just can't imagine myself being the best they can get. There is always someone better than me that they could be with.

I see a girl I like and immediately think "yeah well you're just a ****". It has gone terribly, terribly wrong and I feel like it's only getting worse.

That's called becoming bitter. Salty. Sour grapes. This is bad.

That is instantaneous negative thinking rather than value assessment and is the kind of thought process that gets you stuck on places like 4chan making "feels threads" or skipping blue pill and going straight to black pill.

When you see a girl, you should be able to see her negative qualities and positive qualities, and decide how to act from there, rather than see a girl you like and assume the worst or tag her instantly as low quality.

Not saying you have to get to know every arched-eyebrow prada-bag ***** you meet, most of them are low quality, but you should treat it like you seeing a brand of bread you don't like at the store, with apathy. Apathy > Dislike.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Where do you get all these memes?

 

[homie]

Where do you get all these memes?

You don't want to know.

 

[devilkingx2]

I've come to a stage in my life where I've grown more and more introvert. Basically because woman are hypertrophy and I just can't imagine myself being the best they can get. There is always someone better than me that they could be with.

I see a girl I like and immediately think "yeah well you're just a ****". It has gone terribly, terribly wrong and I feel like it's only getting worse.

you eventually get over that, your hatred will subside but your libido is everlasting.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Think of yourself as compared to a 5-10 dude moving average. That's about the extent of most women's memories.

You don't have to be the best she can get. All you have to do is be the best among the past 5-10 guys she's interacted. That should be pretty easy, especially if you increase your shots on goal.

And once you've "got her" your next job is to find a better girl before she finds a better guy.

The more you play, the better you get, and the higher "quality" woman you'll snag, AND you'll increase the size of your average (the number of dudes in her memory that you score better than) from say, 10 dudes, to 100 dudes, etc.

 

[resilient]

Think of yourself as compared to a 5-10 dude moving average.

This post was revealing. So if a woman is exposed to attention daily on social media, OLD, or in person with many suitors it's harder to leave a lasting impression because of the high turnover rate. I.e. she's outgoing, ultra extroverted, "free-spirited", likes heaps of attention. A DJ would then have to be her best option, indeed. That's why I feel like scarcity or withdrawing attention to maintain respect, honor, and mystery doesn't hold the value like it used to (welcome to input here).

A DJ can't control the high volume of male attention she gets. The best he can do is control his frame, continue self-improving, and spin plates. If she knows she gets more opposite sex volume than the one she's with, she'll soft next early. It just seems to be the nature of the game with respect to the power struggle dynamic in SMV.

I like the idea of hooking the plate and keeping options aggressively open before the plate finds a monkey branch to jump to first.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

I like the idea of hooking the plate and keeping options aggressively open before the plate finds a monkey branch to jump to first.

All's fair in love and war. Women are programmed to act that way without thinking. Men need to consciously get into the habit of doing it.

 

[wifehunter]

This post was revealing. So if a woman is exposed to attention daily on social media, OLD, or in person with many suitors it's harder to leave a lasting impression because of the high turnover rate. I.e. she's outgoing, ultra extroverted, "free-spirited", likes heaps of attention. A DJ would then have to be her best option, indeed. That's why I feel like scarcity or withdrawing attention to maintain respect, honor, and mystery doesn't hold the value like it used to (welcome to input here).

A DJ can't control the high volume of male attention she gets. The best he can do is control his frame, continue self-improving, and spin plates. If she knows she gets more opposite sex volume than the one she's with, she'll soft next early. It just seems to be the nature of the game with respect to the power struggle dynamic in SMV.

I like the idea of hooking the plate and keeping options aggressively open before the plate finds a monkey branch to jump to first.

Scarcity always works...

http://www.kitco.com/charts/livegold.html?sitetype=fullsite

 

[resilient]

Men need to consciously get into the habit of doing it.

Seriously... who they hell socially programmed us men to not spin plates and devote all our time, energy, love into one person who's only concerned with weighing her options at all times?

 

[DaCokeZero]

Is it possible for everyone to become a DJ or at least better with woman? I mean, I have an abnormal low self-esteem, I barely can look anyone in the eye because I think I'm hideous. This is a vicious circle because I can't hold conversation, have no social skills,...

I discovered this site 4 years ago, in that time I have gotten nowhere, and in fact got worse.

 

[Desdinova]

None of us are "the best a woman can get".

I see it as a bit different. We are the best a woman can get, but much of the time the woman realises it much too late. By the time she sees value in us, she's old, ugly, and we have moved on. It's not often that a woman can be satisfied with her man, but it does happen. You just need to get in early enough and have all the cards fall perfectly into place for it to work.