"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Too much peanut butter?

Cash

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I'm thinking of getting through about half a (big) tub a day to try and put some weight on my 5ft 8 130 lbs frame.

This is pretty much the only bulking food i have in the house right now. It's no added salt and all natural.

So is this a good idea?

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you're going to go through half of a big tub of natty PB a day, then unless your parents work at Skippy or Smuckers odds are good you'll have to go to the grocery store to buy more. Why not buy other items to bulk on then? Most grocery stores put out a weekly advertisement with their specials... if you look around you can usually find boneless skinless chicken breasts for about $1.50/lb.

That aside, there's nothing wrong with PB in moderation. Eating half of a tub is going to load you up on fats.. again, there's nothing wrong with fats either, in moderation. However, since the average CUP of natty peanut butter has 124g of fat, odds are if you eat half of a tub you're going to be taking in anywhere from 250 to 375 grams of fat every day. That's too much, period.
 

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I would think a 6lb tub of whey protein would be vastly more effective in terms of nutrition and cost.

I eat a lot of peanut butter too. But half a tub? Dude your ass cheeks are gonna stick together.
 

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I wouldn't because peanuts are in fact a legume (like soy) which contains an estrogen chain (can't remember which one).
 

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I'd go for walnuts instead. If you do decide to go with PB, make shure it's the all natural kind.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no added sugar is more important than no added salt.

watch out, all natural is not a regulated label, so it could still contain transfats, and if not, it probably requires refrigeration and/or stirring.
 
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