"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Too much of a good thing?

seethehoop

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Ok I'm gonna go see this girl next week for some serious fun. She is arranging a hotel for us to stay in. I originally said that id come over thurs morning and go back Friday aft. Now I realise I could go up weds night after work. So here's my question.

Do I keep it to jus thurs and fri to keep things short or should I go for the extra evening to smash it out a bit more?

I'm in too minds. The shorter visit means less secks but may leave her wanting more but the extra evening means more secks during the visit but runs a higher risk of too much too soon. I don't want her to loose attraction cos I'm being too available.

Thoughts?
 

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SoSuave666

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In the beginning stages, when she has high interest, less is always more. Do not forget it. Ever. No matter how much you think she is into you, she really is in to the THOUGHT of you. You have to keep her wanting more. The longer you do this, the longer the "honeymoon" stage lasts. Trust me.

Don't go back on your plans. In fact, make up a goddamn story about how you were so busy on wednesday but you wish you could have made it earlier than your planned thursday date. Women are driven by emotion, and the fact that she doesnt have you yet will drive her wild, if she is totally in to you.
 

seethehoop

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I think I was over thinking it, I've already said I'm going up Wednesday after work so its kinda done. I was supposed to go up the week after as well but may have to cancel so this may work out the same. Swings and roundabouts init!
 
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