"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too much of a good thing?

seethehoop

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Ok I'm gonna go see this girl next week for some serious fun. She is arranging a hotel for us to stay in. I originally said that id come over thurs morning and go back Friday aft. Now I realise I could go up weds night after work. So here's my question.

Do I keep it to jus thurs and fri to keep things short or should I go for the extra evening to smash it out a bit more?

I'm in too minds. The shorter visit means less secks but may leave her wanting more but the extra evening means more secks during the visit but runs a higher risk of too much too soon. I don't want her to loose attraction cos I'm being too available.

Thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SoSuave666

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In the beginning stages, when she has high interest, less is always more. Do not forget it. Ever. No matter how much you think she is into you, she really is in to the THOUGHT of you. You have to keep her wanting more. The longer you do this, the longer the "honeymoon" stage lasts. Trust me.

Don't go back on your plans. In fact, make up a goddamn story about how you were so busy on wednesday but you wish you could have made it earlier than your planned thursday date. Women are driven by emotion, and the fact that she doesnt have you yet will drive her wild, if she is totally in to you.
 

seethehoop

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I think I was over thinking it, I've already said I'm going up Wednesday after work so its kinda done. I was supposed to go up the week after as well but may have to cancel so this may work out the same. Swings and roundabouts init!
 
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