"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Too much of a good thing?

seethehoop

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Ok I'm gonna go see this girl next week for some serious fun. She is arranging a hotel for us to stay in. I originally said that id come over thurs morning and go back Friday aft. Now I realise I could go up weds night after work. So here's my question.

Do I keep it to jus thurs and fri to keep things short or should I go for the extra evening to smash it out a bit more?

I'm in too minds. The shorter visit means less secks but may leave her wanting more but the extra evening means more secks during the visit but runs a higher risk of too much too soon. I don't want her to loose attraction cos I'm being too available.

Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SoSuave666

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In the beginning stages, when she has high interest, less is always more. Do not forget it. Ever. No matter how much you think she is into you, she really is in to the THOUGHT of you. You have to keep her wanting more. The longer you do this, the longer the "honeymoon" stage lasts. Trust me.

Don't go back on your plans. In fact, make up a goddamn story about how you were so busy on wednesday but you wish you could have made it earlier than your planned thursday date. Women are driven by emotion, and the fact that she doesnt have you yet will drive her wild, if she is totally in to you.
 

seethehoop

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I think I was over thinking it, I've already said I'm going up Wednesday after work so its kinda done. I was supposed to go up the week after as well but may have to cancel so this may work out the same. Swings and roundabouts init!
 
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