Too much mystery?

[Fumbduck]

Can you be "too mysterious" when it comes to girls?

Once you've placed doubt in her mind about something, would you reveal yourself, or just let her wonder?

-FD

 

[Wiesman44]

it really depends what it is. In terms of being mysterious overall.......its really not that important for you to master until you have the most important traits down, like confidence, self-esteem, ability to approach. Once you have yourself some confidence and ****iness, mysteriousness will just come naturally.

 

[Fumbduck]

I feel I have those traits down pretty well. Confidence and C/F are not a problem at all.

I'll give an example:

So you're still the big V, and she knows this. (By choice, having turned down the deed several times.) Just waiting for a girl u want to do it with.

Her: "So, are you a virgin?"

Me: "Yes." (with a smile)

Her: "I don't believe you!"

Me: (says nothing, still a little, ****y smile)


^^Right move?


Things along these lines. Some, maybe personal traits about yourself.

 

[Andromax]

It's not too mysterious if its working. If the chick aint interested then you did something wrong. Kind of simple..

 

[Fumbduck]

Forgot to add...

I got a real rise out of her when i said this. The 'mystery' effect works quite well for sparking her curiosity, and it has been.

But could you use this "mystery" tactic like by placing doubt in her mind too much? Like could she come to the point where she feels you're giving her the run around and dosent want to play this game anymore.

There's a balance for everything- perhaps some DJ's have experienced this.