"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TOO much eye contact????

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HI all,

Is there really such a thing as too much??? I mean everyone has heard the old saying of "Too much of one thing is not good". But is it really true with women?? Sometimes I get a feeling it is, while I also believe that these women are getting what they want, while the rest are being revitalized.........Hope that last part makes sense................

edit: I mean that they are getting what they want from the guy that they are with.........Or something along those lines..........
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HI all,

No, I just spent the last couple of years in a prison of the mind....I am, or was, schizophrenic (sp)................I know it could come back, but am honestly hoping, slash that, PRAYING that it doesn't!!!! So as you can imagine, I am pretty horny.....OH!!! I don't really give too shizzles at how honestly I am being...If the mods do they can deleate my post, if you do.... Laugh all you want, I do!!!
 

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HI all,

There is no search function for sosuave.com, if you know something about this, like an "article", point the way, and help a fella out!! Please.....................:)
 

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LOL

Originally posted by honest_e
HI all,

No, I just spent the last couple of years in a prison of the mind....I am, or was, schizophrenic (sp)................I know it could come back, but am honestly hoping, slash that, PRAYING that it doesn't!!!! So as you can imagine, I am pretty horny.....OH!!! I don't really give too shizzles at how honestly I am being...If the mods do they can deleate my post, if you do.... Laugh all you want, I do!!!
Oh man, this really isn't funny, but someone with a serious chemical imbalance in the brain asking about too much eye contact :eek:

Dude, were you on the Red line the other day sitting across the aisle from me? That was indeed TOO much eye contact:confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HI all,

I don't know man you were awfully cute.....hehe....;) And it is not a chemical imbalance persay...... Yes, the brain moves electro-chemically.....But still, I don't want to really talk about it right now...Its late, and I just wanted people to share what they thought of on this topic, perhaps even experiences...........
 

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Schizophrenia-Schizopherantic.

Give a healthy amount of eye contact. But don't stare at her so much to the point that she thinks you are stalking her.
 

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Eye contact is only foreplay to the real even, which is the approach. As soon as you've made eye contact, it's all systems go. Approach when you feel like it.
 

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
Eye contact is only foreplay to the real even, which is the approach. As soon as you've made eye contact, it's all systems go. Approach when you feel like it.
HI all,

Approach??? Too the real is exactly how I feel on this subject! I love it, and wish people would make more of it................
 

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usually once they look away i stop looking at them and find something else that catches my attention... there's usually something going on in my surroundings I can look at.

but when talking to her then I dont think there's such thing as too much eye contact. You definitely don't want to look away when you're talking to her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Interesting question.

First off I think you should of re worded it a little better into something that doesn’t sound really AFC.

Anyways,

Answer is for a Women- No for a Man – Maybe. It all Depends on your situation and how are you are conveying your look. In my AFC days I experimented with eye contact with girls when talking or in a group and sometimes I got bad results. :D Meaning sometimes they said it look like I was staring right through them. Other times I weird them out. Or they thought even though I was looking in their eyes I am really not but thinking of something like not totally there. Or too much Ooolala in your eye and she’s getting a pervert vibe and shuts me down. :woo:


Look up post on eye contact and MAVEC and that should give you more insight on eye contact and you can avoid the unnecessary comments and flaming.
 
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