"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Too much cheap talk on this site

Trainwreck

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I cannot be the only one that gets annoyed by this, but I am sick of the "Well I've seen/Well I saw this" rebuttals. So fvcking what if you saw this ugly fat dude at the mall with a hot girl. 1) How do you even know if they are even together? 2) How do you even know if they guy isn't paying the girl or if the relationship isn't one sided? The dude could be getting no play at all while the girl is covertly screwing other guys on the side! 3) Why the **** are you judging **** face value anyways? Only delusional insecure people do this ****? I remember during the lowest points in my life, I would constantly be looking at what other people were doing and assuming they were killing it in life. Today, I could give two **** what Amanda is doing and it turns out their relationship was **** or Seth is a depressed pos right now. 4) At the end of the day, you aren't making a constructive point, you are just literally throwing a back handed insult at another person.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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derricklerrick

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It's what people who are never willing to improve say to comfort themselves from the lack of progress in their life.
 

AlphaNate

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My favorite is, "this girl told me..."

LOL you already lost me, bro. Chicks lie.
 

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Nobody is forced to be here, nobody pays to be here, and the "ignore" button is there for a reason.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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