"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Too much cheap talk on this site

Trainwreck

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I cannot be the only one that gets annoyed by this, but I am sick of the "Well I've seen/Well I saw this" rebuttals. So fvcking what if you saw this ugly fat dude at the mall with a hot girl. 1) How do you even know if they are even together? 2) How do you even know if they guy isn't paying the girl or if the relationship isn't one sided? The dude could be getting no play at all while the girl is covertly screwing other guys on the side! 3) Why the **** are you judging **** face value anyways? Only delusional insecure people do this ****? I remember during the lowest points in my life, I would constantly be looking at what other people were doing and assuming they were killing it in life. Today, I could give two **** what Amanda is doing and it turns out their relationship was **** or Seth is a depressed pos right now. 4) At the end of the day, you aren't making a constructive point, you are just literally throwing a back handed insult at another person.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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derricklerrick

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It's what people who are never willing to improve say to comfort themselves from the lack of progress in their life.
 

AlphaNate

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My favorite is, "this girl told me..."

LOL you already lost me, bro. Chicks lie.
 

logicallefty

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Nobody is forced to be here, nobody pays to be here, and the "ignore" button is there for a reason.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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