"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too Much Chauvinism Around Here

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Some people take the chauvenistic attitude a bit too far: for instance, labelling ALL women as whors and deftly stating that any women who isn't in the kitchen and a virgin until marriage is a slut is just ridiculous. That isn't how things are.

BUT: the guys who come here telling the truth about how MOST women are lying, deceiving, untrustworthy, shallow, self-serviant people are telling the truth.

It is human nature to walk on the weak. Sexy women use their sex to mistreat men, and weak men let this happen. Strong men do not let this happen. They know that every man is above that kind of treatment.

Conversely, it is human nature to be attracted to the strong. Men who do not condone with the disrespects of women are strong, and thus gain respect(the most important thing to have in the world) and are the men the women are attracted to.


Therefore, aside from the ridiculous generalizations mentioned in paragraph one, the "bashing" is just accounts of evidence of personal interactions with women in today's world, and in the media.

The lesson is: do not take crap from anyone who dishes it out, and you will get respect.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Hound_of_Love
LOL! This thread is hilarious!

To me the whole DJ philosophy is about yourself, not about other people. I merely have to become that which I dream of becoming and be content in that.

Women can be whatever they want to be and I can paddle in that stream whenever I want to but I cannot change the nature of the stream. It doesn't matter. Everything involved in fulfillment comes back to the improvement of self...

"Be the change you wish to see in the world"

*assumes lotus position*
That's a great attitude, however, there's a lot of young guys on here who don't have there heads screwed on as well as you do, who are WBAFC.
 

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Both women and men have been totally f*cked over by this lesbo feminazi crap. All in the name of politically correctness.

Here's an experiment for everyone: Start frequenting your local sportsbar a couple times a week. The kind of one that has hot waitresses and bartenders all dressed like putanas.

Watch what all the AFCs do. Watch how they behave, and conversely watch how all the girls behave.

Then do everything opposite to how the AFCs behave. Have conversations, but don't compliment them. Behave like a gentleman, engage them in conversation, act like a man, talk to them as if they are just another guy.

Do this long enough and act with complete aloofness and see how quickly ALL of the broads who work in there will be gushing over you, because they're not used to a guy who doesn't kiss their ass.

Guaranteed after awhile you will have shagged at least one of them.
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe

Then do everything opposite to how the AFCs behave. Have conversations, but don't compliment them. Behave like a gentleman, engage them in conversation, act like a man, talk to them as if they are just another guy.

Hang on. Behave like a gentleman you say? Are you aware that's what I and many others have been advocating that we do on this thread and that people have criticised us for it?
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
Hang on. Behave like a gentleman you say? Are you aware that's what I and many others have been advocating that we do on this thread and that people have criticised us for it?
Indeed. But we should be talking about the original definition of 'gentleman'. Strong, magnanimous, self-assured as well as polite - it is a life's work in itself.

If we're only doing it to get laid then we're missing the point and will always be leaving our happiness in the hands of others because if we reach a time where no-one will sleep with us, self-doubt will creep in.

Copious quantities of sex should be a welcome by-product not the 'end' itself.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
Hang on. Behave like a gentleman you say? Are you aware that's what I and many others have been advocating that we do on this thread and that people have criticised us for it?
Your definition of gentleman and mine are quite different, I can assure you, junior.
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Your definition of gentleman and mine are quite different, I can assure you, junior.
Surely we can both agree that a gentleman is not chauvinistic?

PS No need to call me junior, pops.;)
 

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SO MUCH ANGER!!

lol. you all need 2 or 200 hookers. Get rid of the anger ... whoo-saaa. whoo-saa
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
Surely we can both agree that a gentleman is not chauvinistic?

PS No need to call me junior, pops.;)
Let's define chauvinstic. Is male chauvinism something that has always existed, or just a feminist buzzword like being 'anti-abortion'. (Notice how they push abortion and label the pro-lifers in a negative context by instead calling them 'anti-abortionists'.

Everyone has an agenda. Destroy the family unit through promoting promiscuous (homosexual) sex and also promoting abortion. Notice all the young woman bragging that they are bi-sexual these days......where did this explosion of same sex experimentation come from all of a sudden???

Notice how it isn't working as well on us straight guys, because it goes against our very nature as real men to get turned on by a puckering rectum, yet we openly buy into the bill of goods that it's sexy for two women to be together. That's porno propaganda.

Want to control the masses? Sex is the best weapon in your arsenal.

This is one of their goals, they have (the lesbo feminists) stated it clearly numerous times.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Let's define chauvinstic. Is male chauvinism something that has always existed, or just a feminist buzzword like being 'anti-abortion'. (Notice how they push abortion and label the pro-lifers in a negative context by instead calling them 'anti-abortionists'.

Everyone has an agenda. Destroy the family unit through promoting promiscuous (homosexual) sex and also promoting abortion. Notice all the young woman bragging that they are bi-sexual these days......where did this explosion of same sex experimentation come from all of a sudden???

Notice how it isn't working as well on us straight guys, because it goes against our very nature as real men to get turned on by a puckering rectum, yet we openly buy into the bill of goods that it's sexy for two women to be together. That's porno propaganda.

Want to control the masses? Sex is the best weapon in your arsenal.

This is one of their goals, they have (the lesbo feminists) stated it clearly numerous times.
But this argument relies upon the assertion that you have to be a woman or a feminist to define chauvinism which is not true. I don't have to be black to be offended by a white man spouting racist propaganda against blacks. The key here is the question of what is a gentleman? A quick browse of my dictionary tells me that a gentleman is "a man of honourable and kindly behaviour".

Now surely all of us here, or at least most of us, would seek to be a charming gentleman. In other words, "a man of honourable and kindly behaviour". Surely you acknowledge that certain people on this forum have gone beyond this and are being purely derogatory towards ALL women. "All women are hos, sluts, b*tches" etc. This, to me, is foolishness and ultimately chauvinistic.

The DJ philosophy of this site is trying to teach men to be charming and to have honour and dignity and self-respect and high self-esteem. I feel sorry for the people on this forum who require denigrating the opposite sex in order to achieve these things.
 

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Originally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
Oh, so, because you can't get any play, let's assume All these young women are bi-sexual...
Talk about a Liberal method of argument. I.e. can't argue so attack your foe personally.

Sorry sweet heart, I get plenty of play from young (20 something hors), don't worry about me. Usually they have AFC boyfriends too.

It's very easy to attract younger women because en masse their self esteems are in the gutter because they'll never measure up to Britney and they base it (Their self esteem) entirely on their looks due to the endless symping of the AFCs, and it makes them very easy targets.

The reason I can still score with the young ones is because I understand how things are, only too well.

Look on any dating site and do a search on all the young women who profess alleged bi-sexuality because they think it will make them more attractive.

Again, I think you should get the f*ck off this website, you're polluting all of these young men's minds with your hor ish ideas and way of thinking.
 

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Originally posted by Jus_LikeCandy
Oh, so, because you can't get any play, let's assume All these young women are bi-sexual...
You know candy, you talk a lot of shyt. I think you're just a fvcking troll. Like someone said in another thread, we should all put our pics up, so we can put a face with who's talking. I have little respect for people who talk crap anonymously.

Here's my pic...lets see yours sweetcheeks....
http://profiles.yahoo.com/marine_muscle8541
 

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Originally posted by Mr.Style
But this argument relies upon the assertion that you have to be a woman or a feminist to define chauvinism which is not true. I don't have to be black to be offended by a white man spouting racist propaganda against blacks. The key here is the question of what is a gentleman? A quick browse of my dictionary tells me that a gentleman is "a man of honourable and kindly behaviour".

Now surely all of us here, or at least most of us, would seek to be a charming gentleman. In other words, "a man of honourable and kindly behaviour". Surely you acknowledge that certain people on this forum have gone beyond this and are being purely derogatory towards ALL women. "All women are hos, sluts, b*tches" etc. This, to me, is foolishness and ultimately chauvinistic.

The DJ philosophy of this site is trying to teach men to be charming and to have honour and dignity and self-respect and high self-esteem. I feel sorry for the people on this forum who require denigrating the opposite sex in order to achieve these things.
There's nothing wrong with behaving like a gentlemen as long as it is always done from a position of power and does not cross the line into sympish behaviour.

Your comparison to the black/white issue is moral relativism and, in my mind, isn't an argument. Two totally different situations given that there are both black and white women, and black and white men. Racial issues bare no weight in this argument.

Calling all women hos, b*tches etc. is wrong, I agree, but that still does not change the fact that 95% of North American women exhibit horish behaviour from one degree or another, it doesn't change the fact that they are a waste of time for any young guy to take seriously and potentially ruin his life over.
 

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Originally posted by Jake-inator
I'd like to point out that most of you dumb-asses bashing p\/ssy eater aren't even from America.

You're a bunch of Brits who've never had to deal with American women. Why don't you come over here and see how it is. This isn't your old world europe, this is all out Opera feminazi bullsh*t going down over here. I've be been to Europe, and women there are so fu*king normal i couldn't believe it. I don't even know why you guys would need a forum like this... you must be Uber AFCs or something.

American women are shallow, greedy, and generally have no compasion for any human being besides themselves.
And you know what? They deserve to get treated like sh*t.
Because that's what they are.

If you treat em like that they'll always come back for more.
Just like Jus_LikeCandy goes back to her bf.


They're also very dumb and naive.:kick:
If you haven't figured that out yet...
I can't argue with this.. canadian women are just as bad.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
I find it hilarious how some of these guys come on here and berate us for telling the truth about American women. They want people to think they're "level headed" and "fair", but that's exactly the mentality the feminazis feed on.

All women are not bad, but a lot of them are. How many women do you think would come to our defense on a similar site? Not a damn one. Until men get this chivalry shyt out of their heads, women will continue to take advantage.

If women acted like WOMEN, they'd be treated as such. But when you act like blood sucking, man bashing, evil cvnts, that's what you'll get treated like also.

Maybe someday one of these guys expounding on the virtues of femininity will run into a bytch who accuses them of rape, and ruins their lives. Because that's exactly what's happening to a lot of men.

I was just like you guys, but I found out the truth. You might not think we're right, but reality speaks volumes.

Reminds me of when some of the women at work said, "How come there are no real men around anymore. They don't even open the door for us?"

I replied with, "When you cook for us we will open the door for you".

It works both ways I think.
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
There's nothing wrong with behaving like a gentlemen as long as it is always done from a position of power and does not cross the line into sympish behaviour.
That is what I have been saying myself repeatedly.

Your comparison to the black/white issue is moral relativism and, in my mind, isn't an argument. Two totally different situations given that there are both black and white women, and black and white men. Racial issues bare no weight in this argument.
The point I was trying to make was that having an opinion that something is chauvinistic isn't necessarily a result of female propaganda brainwashing me but I accept my argument may have been a little abstract.

Calling all women hos, b*tches etc. is wrong, I agree, but that still does not change the fact that 95% of North American women exhibit horish behaviour from one degree or another, it doesn't change the fact that they are a waste of time for any young guy to take seriously and potentially ruin his life over.
As I said on another thread, I haven't been to America so I can't comment on the women. My original point was that to categorise all women as something was foolish and unhelpful and contrary to the teachings of the site. I am glad that you have understood where I have come from and you have conducted your argument well so you have my respect for that.
 
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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Let's define chauvinstic. Is male chauvinism something that has always existed, or just a feminist buzzword like being 'anti-abortion'. (Notice how they push abortion and label the pro-lifers in a negative context by instead calling them 'anti-abortionists'.

Everyone has an agenda. Destroy the family unit through promoting promiscuous (homosexual) sex and also promoting abortion. Notice all the young woman bragging that they are bi-sexual these days......where did this explosion of same sex experimentation come from all of a sudden???

Notice how it isn't working as well on us straight guys, because it goes against our very nature as real men to get turned on by a puckering rectum, yet we openly buy into the bill of goods that it's sexy for two women to be together. That's porno propaganda.

Want to control the masses? Sex is the best weapon in your arsenal.

This is one of their goals, they have (the lesbo feminists) stated it clearly numerous times.
Don Juanabbe - I told you before to change your name to "Don Juan Is" (you are not a wannabe anymore) .

I thought I wrote the above post until I saw your name on it.

I'll let you handle these boys on this thread - you're doing a good job!!! Speak truth and tell it like it is!!!!
 

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It's all about respect in my book. You disrespect me, then you're going to hear about it plain and simple, whether you're a man or a woman. I'm polite to people and I also don't take any sh-t either. I'm never rude to someone unless they have it coming.

Lumping today's women into one category or putting percentages on how many are hors or what not is pointless. I've been around long enough to have seen all kinds and YES, unfortunately alot of the good ones are taken...that's why they're taken, DUH! But not all of them, not by a long shot. In my opinion, it's also a maturity thing. When someone realizes that respect is something that goes both ways and is earned then they become a better person as a result.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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