Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Too much C&F?

DonDiscovery

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I was talking to this girl, using C&f, all was going well, then suddenly I completely lost her attention (one little joke too far?)...and this got me thinking...

CAn you have too much ****iness and humour?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HalfPUAHalfAFC

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Of course you can have too much ****y/funny... you can have too much of anything.

Keep her on her toes.

Shift from c&f to serious to romantic to aloof. Lead the interaction but don't be predictable. They eat that up.

Calibrate per girl. If ****y/funny is working, keep it up for a while. Then change the tone of the interaction, as well as locale.

Keep her emotions swirling and you'll keep her interested.
 

Atom Smasher

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Yup, most guys significantly overuse C&F. I see it here all the time.

Half pretty much gave the right formula to follow.
 
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