"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Too much C&F?

DonDiscovery

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I was talking to this girl, using C&f, all was going well, then suddenly I completely lost her attention (one little joke too far?)...and this got me thinking...

CAn you have too much ****iness and humour?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HalfPUAHalfAFC

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Of course you can have too much ****y/funny... you can have too much of anything.

Keep her on her toes.

Shift from c&f to serious to romantic to aloof. Lead the interaction but don't be predictable. They eat that up.

Calibrate per girl. If ****y/funny is working, keep it up for a while. Then change the tone of the interaction, as well as locale.

Keep her emotions swirling and you'll keep her interested.
 

Atom Smasher

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Yup, most guys significantly overuse C&F. I see it here all the time.

Half pretty much gave the right formula to follow.
 
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