"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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too much analysing on this board!!!

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zemaj

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The title sums up my point!

I think we all spend too long on here debating intricate details about what is a good date idea, what the right thing to say is, how to open, whether to hug or shake hands etc etc

This surely goes against the DJ mindset of effectively not giving a fvck!?

I mean, so long as we know the basics and have read the bible, I'm honestly sure we dont need to keep second guessing ourselves, and have to have a 2-page response thread to "how do I ask her out?" etc.

Totally hypocritical btw, because I have done this myself many times... I just feel that we maybe spend too long on here analysing things that are quite unimportant/unneccesary...and in a lot of cases, this can ruin things rather than help you out in field. :cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sandow

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agreed, but the newbies need a structured set of rules and ideas to help them get off their crutches. God knows I did. Once their experienced enough, then yes, no need to overanalyze anymore
 
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Sir_Turtle

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Agleed, Mostly the people on this board need experience. Go out and get some. That's the fastest way to improve.
 
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Scar Tissue

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Yeah you have a good point but also realise that many new guys are socially awkward. They are here at this site to smooth their style out---->meaning seemingly simple things will need to be discussed.

They learn what to do here and then go out and see what kind of response they get. Trial and error
 
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tony-montana

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yeah some of the things on here have actually made it worse for me and i regret posting about it lol. i dont know why i keep comin back here hehe. i just get nervous i might fuk my date up but then i come here .. get all these mixed answers. makes me more nervous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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women want confidence, they want humour, honesty and good manners...ask about her and find out what she likes to do on a date

meet her with a grin and a peck on the cheek. be genuine

if she's right for you it'll flow like water if it aint - well whats a few hours...

no need to analize just get out there n practice
 
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Snowman23

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Sandow said:
but the newbies need a structured set of rules and ideas to help them get off their crutches.
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This excuse has been said before... but if you notice, 90% of the 3+ pages of over-analyzing are done by members who have been here a long time.
 
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