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Too much alcohol messes your game up

Die Hard

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I had my eyes on this particular girl and finally got a great chance to make her mine this weekend, but I messed it up because I got too drunk...

As I'm still walking at the beginning of the path towards becoming a DJ, I still need to consciously overrule all the AFC habits that pop up as soon as I try to run my game. You know what I mean, basically just the tendency to become nervous/shy and all the ways your behavior reflects this.. But I've become quite good at overruling these tendencies, I must say. But the thing is, I need to do this consciously..I need to take charge of myself and push myself into the DJ mood, I need to focus on that or else I'll just act like an AFC. To act like a DJ, I need to be in control of myself... But too much alcohol does the exact opposite... When I think back of that night and analyze my behaviour, I feel like facepalming continually. I broke all the rules that need to be followed in order to be succesful, I made all the wrong decisions in my approach to her.. She was very interested in me at the start, it was a "done deal", I just had to play it out right. But as the night progressed, she lost all her interest in me because I did everything wrong.

I'm writing it down so this thread can keep reminding me, and hopefully it's an extra reminder to others: TOO MUCH ALCOHOL TOTALLY RUINS YOUR GAME!!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree with you there Die Hard.

Some people say that alcohol loosens you up and keeps you hyped up... perhaps a small amount but as you say, more than that? and you're asking for trouble! haha

I find alcohol doesnt positively influence my game at all!

Peace out
 

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Dear Diehard,
The only problems I have had so far with erectile disfunction,were directly caused by alcohol....The immoral bard himself said of booze,"it doth improve the attraction and confound the performance"....as one third of Englishmen and a good few of us Anglos in other lands,are Shakespeares descendants then,you might say, he knew a thing or two.
 

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Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesus CHRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSTTTTTT

When I was in high school, (like a hundred years ago) I brought a freshman to the senior prom. Me and about three four friends (and our dates) rented a hotel. We had everything planned out.

We got to the hotel in the afternoon, filled the bathtub with ice and beer and champagne. Prom went great, all piled into my truck and rolled back to the hotel.

three four rooms had been rented by other high schoolers, as the hotel was cheap and near the ballroom where the prom was being held. So there were plenty of parties going on.

I could tell my date (who this smokin hot half Japanese girl) was sending me signals that it was ON. There was no doubt in my bones we were going to bone. Easy kissing, no flinching or resistance to my wandering hands during various drinking games.

then she got sick because she was having such a great time that she drank too much.

No pu$$y for me that night. But quite a fun experience neverthless.
 

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I've always struggled with my drinking. I don't have a particular urge to drink, but in social situations, once I get going it's hard to stop.

It's perhaps partly genetic (my father and brother have the same problem), but in the end i have to take responsibility for my actions.

So, I've recently committed to go 60 days alcohol free. Done 6 so far and going fine.

Went out with my mates last Friday night, wasn't tempted to drink once (stuck to red bull / coke / water), acted as designated driver, got home and in bed by 4am, got up at 9am the next morning and felt fine!

Here's to hoping I manage to last the 60 days!
 

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Other than losing control of yourself, alcohol also releases estrogen and decreases testosterone level. In other words, it makes you a b!tch.

Drink responsibly, Don Juan masters.
 

JustLurk

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Jitterbug said:
In other words, it makes you a b!tch.
:crackup:
Who would drink after reading this?
 

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Martinis are like t!ts, one's not enough, but three is too many.


Learning to sarge straight should come before sarging buzzed. Needing a drink to approach only helps you in a bar or a club, not many other places.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Die Hard

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Learning to sarge straight should come before sarging buzzed. Needing a drink to approach only helps you in a bar or a club, not many other places.
My thoughts exactly, and I'm gonna stick with it from now on. To be honest, there's a lot more to my story and as to why I wasn't able to pick this girl up... But I've decided to go and put that in a seperate thread:

http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1716342#post1716342
 
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