I agree. Women just focus on and put more importance on obvious body language signs, but they are no more accurate nor able to read people than a guy is. Women really are clueless. They don't understand each other or even themselves, let alone understand men. Women are simply prone to judgemental and jump to erroneous conclusions. That's not being clued in.mrRuckus said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
too many good-looking tall dudes at clubs
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MillenniumMike
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Women do have an advantage over the average guy, while we were playing football or dodge ball they were playing house. They have been preparing for the dating world since birth. Women are clueless to the minority of guys who are either naturals or some sort of community guy, if you are in those two categories women find you unpredictable and you are essentially invulnerable to her tests.
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MillenniumMike said:
Holy sh!t. Ive been mind fvcked! Its, true woman don't know what to do when a natural comes, around, they get all flustered, shy, innocent eyes, and weak voice, boy do i love that!Tall club guys are like big trees, and im the dark knight on the black horse, being the bad guy that, is having fun kidnapping the princess.
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social proof is the most important factor in determining attraction, PERIOD. all the other stuff, wealth, looks, muscles, height are a factor of a magnitude less important, other than by how much they influence the social proof.
I'm going to seriously disagree with you on that one. Its a combination of things that makes the attraction. You can't be a limbless retard with Pam Anderson on your arm and expect to attract any females. Everything has to be present in the right proportions for attraction to take place.Cry For Love said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
